I have to ask this question, because I am always trying to understand the buyers mind. At least OTHER buyers minds.
When I want someones guitar, I email them, tell them or ask them if their guitar is available and if I can buy it. They either say yes or no. If its a yes, I buy it. If its a no, I either keep trying, or I move on.
I have absolutely no need to sell anything I have. Never have, never will. So when someone PM's me multiple times over several months wanting to buy my guitar, and then waggles when I say yes, it completely confuses me. To ME, that is the definition of a tire kicker. And there is absolutely zero use for that kind of buyer. Its a waste of my time when in reality, all I was doing was trying to be cool.
If I didnt want to buy someones guitar in the first place, I wouldnt even bother them, out of respect.
So I guess what I am saying is, if you dont want to buy someones guitar, why inquire if they will sell it to you? Whats the purpose? I will not name any names, but this has happened to me multiple times.
The classifieds here have become a place where you post something for sale, simply out of courtesy to the long relationship you have had with many of the people here. I NEVER expect to sell anything here, and to be honest, I see people who are longstanding members post things for sale elsewhere, because they know all they will get is "wow, thats great, can I buy it when I get a job"? or "Thats so cool, wanna trade me for my 4 Hondos"?
This isnt a money thing, its a respect thing. If you dont want to actually buy something , dont freakin ask if its for sale.
When I want someones guitar, I email them, tell them or ask them if their guitar is available and if I can buy it. They either say yes or no. If its a yes, I buy it. If its a no, I either keep trying, or I move on.
I have absolutely no need to sell anything I have. Never have, never will. So when someone PM's me multiple times over several months wanting to buy my guitar, and then waggles when I say yes, it completely confuses me. To ME, that is the definition of a tire kicker. And there is absolutely zero use for that kind of buyer. Its a waste of my time when in reality, all I was doing was trying to be cool.
If I didnt want to buy someones guitar in the first place, I wouldnt even bother them, out of respect.
So I guess what I am saying is, if you dont want to buy someones guitar, why inquire if they will sell it to you? Whats the purpose? I will not name any names, but this has happened to me multiple times.
The classifieds here have become a place where you post something for sale, simply out of courtesy to the long relationship you have had with many of the people here. I NEVER expect to sell anything here, and to be honest, I see people who are longstanding members post things for sale elsewhere, because they know all they will get is "wow, thats great, can I buy it when I get a job"? or "Thats so cool, wanna trade me for my 4 Hondos"?
This isnt a money thing, its a respect thing. If you dont want to actually buy something , dont freakin ask if its for sale.
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