Who else sold Ian a BR? And how long did you have to wait for shipping it so he could sneak it past his wife? I guess Mr Lee thinks we're all his personal storage facilities?
IIRC He paid a deposit right aways but he didn't pay it in 3 weeks. It dragged on about 6 months but I figured I had the deposit and I had the guitar so the control was in my favor either way I could have demanded payment if I needed it or sent back and sold it.
After he finally made the last payment he wanted me "hold" the guitar because he wanted me to drive it out to his house and spend the weekend. Anyone who knows me personally knows that I have been through hell and back twice with my daughter in the last 2 years plus some of my own stuff going on. There was no way I could make time to drive it and at one point asked Chuck E to deliver it on a trip he was planning out to LI to see Monte which never happened.
I kept asking for Ian to take delivery and he wouldn't. I was aware he had a lot of these coming in. Early on in the deal he had a personal issue with his wife over buying the guitar and said he had to back out. He ended up changing his mind and continuing on with the deal.
over a year went buy when we finally narrowed it down that he was going to have the guitar picked up. The deal Ian and I worked out had Ian to a call for on FedEx. I had the same issue with false pickups, wrong tracking numbers etc on several occasions. The difference in my deal was that I was drop shipping from work and we knew the drivers. When I would ask about a call tag or whatever he was the one that told me none was ever issued. Eventually I got Ian's FedEx account # and I reverse shipped it on my own.
The deal was completed in an honest manner but it certainly was a long drawn out process.
When Pat had his issue I had 2 people I considered very good friends tugging me in both directions over the deal. I had Pat who has always been a good friend asking me about my experience with my deal and I had Ian mad at me for not doing something to help him. Eventually word got back to me that I was being accused for helping Pat screw Ian and I sent a pissed off email telling Ian I was done not to bother me anymore.
This was a no win deal for me on either side because both these people IMO were upstanding and good friends over the years. For me to get involved meant having one feel like I was playing sides. With all that was going on in my own personal life I felt it better to remain impartial and deal with my personal life and not get involved in what I felt was added salt to my already large BigRed wounds.
I'm very unhappy to see the guitar trashed it ripped my heart out as can be seen in a previous post. Sully and I worked very hard to make that guitar a reality and live up to what was promised to Robbin but it ended up being a clusterfuck... it was hard to see this happen on top of that.
I don't believe either party has it in them to be so vindictive to destroy a guitar to prove a point and it would hurt me even more if that was the case so that part of the story I refuse to touch.
In some instance I am very regretful for not trying to help diffuse this when it started and for that I apologize ....
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