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Figured Id stop in to leave something to be discussed, pondered.
They say a man shouldnt know his future, that its better to let it come as it does with no idea whats coming and when. This is primarily so A. if its bad, you dont drive yourself nuts dreading the day, and B. if its good, so you dont fuck it up before it happens. Additionally, while a bad surprise blows hard, a good one is nice every once in a while.
Tonight, I learned a man shouldnt necessarily know his entire past either. When one wishes to move past a prior happening and set of circumstances, he should leave it at that and move on. Not look into just exactly how bad the circumstances may have been, just that theyre bad is all one needs to know. If you already have a good idea as to the nature of those circumstances, then leave it be, DONT DIG. There will come a point when you dig so deep, you hit pay dirt, and then youll wish you wouldnt have gone digging.
Some of you who have platinum access have a rudimentary understanding where Im at right now. I havent given enough details to convey the whole picture. I will add to it to say that things are ultimately looking up, and that were doing much better together. However, there has been a source of info that til tonight, hadnt considered digging in thinking it was probably a pretty innocuous source of info. So dug in, it was way more informative than I thought it was and what I read hit my like a hundred ton of bricks at first. Im still a little shaken as I write this, but its getting better, just because ultimately it doesnt change anything because I feel her guilt and regret is truly heartfelt. I knew about the situation but until tonight, didnt know how long it had been to the severity I was told it got too a couple of weeks ago. I wont lie, I feel a bit more betrayed now after reading what I read, knowing that it didnt just reach critical mass a couple weeks ago like she let on, but had been going on for quite some time(about 9 months or so) and it was apparently not just once but ultimately, its all part of the problem I forgave and agreed to her and to myself to move past.
My point is this, as I stated above, once youve forgiven and agreed to get past something, no matter what it is, leave it at that and move on. You dont need anymore details, you dont want anymore details, Im telling you. Once youve realized the problem and have been told what it is, leave it at that. Throw any more curiosity you may have about the circumstances out the window and move the fuck on. Dont dig, dont dig, dont dig.
Its also said that that one must remember the past or it will repeat its self, while that is true, you dont need the whole picture to remember the past and learn from it. A basic idea and understanding what happened in the past is all one needs. Finding out anymore than you really need to know about the past could be devastating.
They say a man shouldnt know his future, that its better to let it come as it does with no idea whats coming and when. This is primarily so A. if its bad, you dont drive yourself nuts dreading the day, and B. if its good, so you dont fuck it up before it happens. Additionally, while a bad surprise blows hard, a good one is nice every once in a while.
Tonight, I learned a man shouldnt necessarily know his entire past either. When one wishes to move past a prior happening and set of circumstances, he should leave it at that and move on. Not look into just exactly how bad the circumstances may have been, just that theyre bad is all one needs to know. If you already have a good idea as to the nature of those circumstances, then leave it be, DONT DIG. There will come a point when you dig so deep, you hit pay dirt, and then youll wish you wouldnt have gone digging.
Some of you who have platinum access have a rudimentary understanding where Im at right now. I havent given enough details to convey the whole picture. I will add to it to say that things are ultimately looking up, and that were doing much better together. However, there has been a source of info that til tonight, hadnt considered digging in thinking it was probably a pretty innocuous source of info. So dug in, it was way more informative than I thought it was and what I read hit my like a hundred ton of bricks at first. Im still a little shaken as I write this, but its getting better, just because ultimately it doesnt change anything because I feel her guilt and regret is truly heartfelt. I knew about the situation but until tonight, didnt know how long it had been to the severity I was told it got too a couple of weeks ago. I wont lie, I feel a bit more betrayed now after reading what I read, knowing that it didnt just reach critical mass a couple weeks ago like she let on, but had been going on for quite some time(about 9 months or so) and it was apparently not just once but ultimately, its all part of the problem I forgave and agreed to her and to myself to move past.
My point is this, as I stated above, once youve forgiven and agreed to get past something, no matter what it is, leave it at that and move on. You dont need anymore details, you dont want anymore details, Im telling you. Once youve realized the problem and have been told what it is, leave it at that. Throw any more curiosity you may have about the circumstances out the window and move the fuck on. Dont dig, dont dig, dont dig.
Its also said that that one must remember the past or it will repeat its self, while that is true, you dont need the whole picture to remember the past and learn from it. A basic idea and understanding what happened in the past is all one needs. Finding out anymore than you really need to know about the past could be devastating.
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