Bill's New Home

[lerxstcat]

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Geez, Jack! [img]/images/graemlins/frown.gif[/img] I'm so sorry to hear that, dude! I can relate, my mom mentally snapped after my dad died and she OD'ed about twice a year for the remaining 14 years of her life. I will tell you it's natural to feel a lot of anger towards the perason doing this shit, don't feel guilty if you start to feel that. Not the first or second time, but if it becomes repetitive, you will begin to feel more pissed than upset. IMO an OD isn't a true suicide attempt, it's a "cry for help" - or a manipulation of loved ones where you HAVE to deal with the ODer RIGHT NOW.

I know how much of a standup guy you've been for your wife and stepdaughters, yet they've seemingly only gotten worse.
I'm just gonna say the point may come when you have to decide if YOU are going to survive this shit. A lot of people would probably have already skated, especially considering they kids are not your flesh and blood. I hate to see you go through this again and again. Only you know what's right to do and I'm not urging a particular course of action. Just reminding you that you do have a right to live a happy life, even if those around you want to make theirs miserable.

Good luck with all this; you don't deserve it and I'm sorry you've got deranged women on your hands...

[Jack The Riffer]

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Thanks Rich, they are all bipolar so this is a "normal" occurrence

[horns666]

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Sorry Jack..Hang tough Bro...jeez...WTF..you must be going thru some major changes..but you always seem to take things in stride very logicaly..and with an even keel...so it seems...that I respect! [img]/images/graemlins/toast.gif[/img]

Good luck bro..do what you have to do...and nobody knows that better than you..TCB man! [img]/images/graemlins/wink.gif[/img]

On a better note..my son lost his first two matches..he's in 5th grade...and he was teamed up with two 8th graders with 2-5 years experience...he made the second kid work..it was close..I thought Vin had him...but lost on points...but I'm proud that he went in their full of fire and heart...wonder who he gets that from. [img]/images/graemlins/wink.gif[/img]

Things are going well, Haven't got out much...enjoying my days with the fam, playing guitar, going to wrestling with my son 4 days a week.. and listening to music...catching up on stuff I haven't a chance to do much..reading, music ..porn...what else??! [img]/images/graemlins/scratchhead.gif[/img] [img]/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img]

Hey Emmy I got it!!..how awesome...I'll contact John and let him know.. [img]/images/graemlins/wink.gif[/img]

Be back soon...

BTW..That would make sense ya know...with Kong...you're in the Empire State building ...and he's a climbin'...he's coming to your floor...his whole whooly mammoth is vunerable...BING!

The End! [img]/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img]

[Endrik]

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Jack, hang though bro!

Bill why the heck you haven't contacted with Trey Parker and Matt Stone yet? That King Kong idea would be killer in South Park.

[atomic charvel guy]

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hey jack,
what 's next, i thought i had it a little rough.
i have no words to express the way my heart feels for you.
it's awfully heavy , i can feel it, it's like a piece of lead, i'm sorry man. really sorry.

[Jack The Riffer]

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Thanks for the well wishes. She is in CCU and her liver and kidneys are in severe danger of shutting down. They are trying to bring the toxin levels down by giving her charcoal every 2 hours. I guess it's a good thing I'm on vacation this week. Don't worry bout me though. I keep going. Gonna go play some guitar now.

[atomic charvel guy]

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so what's the deal? is everybody in one piece today?
i hope so. i can't handle thinking of my pals in pain.

[Emthrax]

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Yo Tommy!
I'm covalescing.
Twisted my knee. Ouch!
But otherwise good! [img]/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img]

Jack... thinkin' of ya, bro. [img]/images/graemlins/wink.gif[/img]

[Endrik]

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I'm in one piece [img]/images/graemlins/wink.gif[/img]

but one of my very best friends who I've known for a long time isn't. He was the best mid-distance runner (from 400 meters to a couple of miles distances) at his age group in our country. He had a very promising future. He won a silver medal in International "rookies" track and field competition wich was held in Turkey. Running was his gift, it was very natural to him, a real talent. We were in the same class together durning theschool days, I was pretty good runner myself but he was the only one who beat me, and he did it with EASE. Durning the summer he had a car accident and was in coma about a month. The accident happened on his birthday. Now he can barely walk, is paralized at some parts, has some memory loss etc. I just visited him, I gave him many metal CD-s, posters, flags, stickers etc. etc. to make him happier a little bit. He is a way bigger metal-head than I am.

[Jack The Riffer]

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I'm still here and my wife is getting better. She's out of CCU but the nurses seem very bitter towards her and it's NOT just in her head. I have seen the way they talk to her and heard them talking behind her back. I understand she did this to herself but she should expect good care in a hospital and she is not getting it. She had a seizure in front of the nurses yesterday and came out of it confused, I later heard one of the nurses saying she did a good job acting out a seizure. I went over and told the nurse to look on the fucking chart which she finally did and saw that my wife was on anti-seizure medicne and had not been given it yet. I've been on the phone all morning bitching up and down the administrative ladder at that hospital trying to get her transferred. They are going to call me back. Yeah, right. [img]/images/graemlins/mad.gif[/img]

[Cleveland Metal]

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Man, that sucks bad. Screwed up nough she is there, and then getting care like that?

I hope youre getting somewhere. No one deserves to be treated like that. I'd be freakin.

[Jack The Riffer]

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Wow, Wife's doctor just called and said all her levels went back to normal last night and she's been fine all day so far so they are discharging her today. I asked the Dr. if it was because of all the bitching I did was he just dumping her out the door and he says he wasn't aware I was complaining about her care.

[lerxstcat]

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Nurses are only human too, Jack. they reach a breaking point like everyone else, and know that bipolars ARE known for manipulating and faking symptoms. Just because your wife hasn't - yet - doesn't mean they haven't seen it a thousand times.

You want to keep them on the up and up, but making them the enemy is probably a bad idea. You will very likely dealing with these folks, or hospital folks somewhere, for the rest of your life. Your wife is mentally ill and so is at least one of her daughters. That is going to be a volatile situation forever, and you'll need the help of hospitals.
If you alienate them, you can end up not being able to get
medical attention when you need it. They WILL turn you away, believe it or not. And you can't handle it alone.

I know you have to deal with their mistakes, I'm just saying
don't alienate them. I speak from experience. It's a lot harder if the local hospital cuts you off, and if she develops a pattern it's possible that they will. Trust me, I know this very well.

[Cleveland Metal]

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You're always a voice of reason Rich. Good advice bro.

[atomic charvel guy]

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fuck them, get a nice soft juicy rock. that's my advice if she was treated that way. i'd lose it too john. i just would cuz that's me. i come unglued real easy when it comes to friends and family. i'm up for throwing the first punch because i know i am dead in the end cuz i'm 5' 10" - 185.
good night Tommy.