I need a mans point of view.....

[LesPaulCustom]

Okay Ive got a dilema....a friend of Mr LPCs just called, and I answered the phone (as usual). I figured he would say hey is hubby home..lemme talk to him...but no....he tells me how "good" it was to see me today, and asked if he could meet up with me during the week...during my lunch...I really didnt know what to say, and I didnt wanna be blunt and say oh hell no, so I said okay...now Im **** I think....so, then he invites us out to Bootleggers where his band is playing tonight, and we agreed to go....this could be an awkward situation.....what do I do???? I dont wanna be blunt and ruin the friendship they have...but sheesh....what am I?? A turkey??? I dont feel the need to be stuffed and basted by the two of them....

Mrs Oh ****, what do I do????

[StukaJU87]

Re: I need a mans point of view.....

Unless you guys make it a habit of seeing other people without both of you there, I would be careful. Or you could go for lunch and if the situation starts leaning like this guy wants to jump in the sack sans Sam, bail out politely.

[dinkyjacksonman]

Re: I need a mans point of view.....

Is he married?

I am bit confused.

[LesPaulCustom]

Re: I need a mans point of view.....

We dont really make it a habit of seeing other people without the other, unless its just friends, and we mainly hang out with the same people....I cant go to lunch with him because I ALWAYS come home for lunch and although I have an hour for lunch, Im only home about 20 min and then back to work....hes already made it evident that he wants to bone....you could sense it in his voice....and I dont know if hes married...Ive seen him with some girl a few times, but thats all I really know....he does have a shaved head though.....thats the only thing thats gonna make it difficult....

Mrs LPC

[toejam]

Re: I need a mans point of view.....

I'll shave my head for ya if you'd like. [img]/images/graemlins/wink.gif[/img]

[LesPaulCustom]

Re: I need a mans point of view.....

I think it should be a law or something that once men reach the age of 21 they HAVE to shave their head....I dont know why, but I think a man with a bald head is sexy as hell....

Now for another problem that I just realized...Im going to Bootleggers (my favoritest club) and Im BROKE....PLEASE PayPal me some drinking money!!!

Mrs LPC

[dinkyjacksonman]

Re: I need a mans point of view.....

I'd say just let Sam to take care of this and you better stay out of it because you already felt something was weird with this guy and don't want to be involved.
You are married and a guy wants to visit you, that is already scary.

[LesPaulCustom]

Re: I need a mans point of view.....

But I really wanna go tonight, I havent been since the bar reopened, and I really miss some of the people I knew from there....he doesnt let me outta his sight when we go, not that we go very often, and I doubt we will stay very long....Im gonna try and call some friends and see if they wanna go....I hate going out without another female....then I gotta go pee by myself and that sucks hehehe

Mrs LPC

[toejam]

Re: I need a mans point of view.....

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You are married and a guy wants to visit you, that is already scary.

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They're swingers... that's what they're into. [img]/images/graemlins/wink.gif[/img] Don't you remember the AFF discussions with the LPCs and WarriorX7? [img]/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]

[dinkyjacksonman]

Re: I need a mans point of view.....

If you are going with Sam, no problem but inviting him over to your house is scary..
Buy this and put them around this guys wrists.
http://www.handcuffworld.com/doublelockblack.htm

So you will be safe a bit
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[LesPaulCustom]

Re: I need a mans point of view.....

HAhahahaha Ive hung up my swangin shoes LOL

I would never invite him over to the house...EVER.... I wont feel too weird tonight, but I know I wont put myself in the position to where Im vunerable...

Mrs LPC

[toejam]

Re: I need a mans point of view.....

Hung up your swaingin' shoes?!? Bummer. I was gonna shave my head, let you fondle my boobs and paypal you some money. [img]/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img]

[LesPaulCustom]

Re: I need a mans point of view.....

Okay I will break them out again, just for you!!!! Ya talked me into it....

Now hes on the phone with a friend of his discussing my next tattoo..he says Jackson on one tit and Charvel on the other....one tit is already decorated, so I said Jackson on the small of my back...well, a bit lower...so my jeans will cover it....that way he is the only one that can see MY jackson...

Mrs LPC

[VitaminG]

Re: I need a mans point of view.....

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I dont know why, but I think a man with a bald head is sexy as hell....

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Really? That's VERY interesting.... I've been shaving for years! [img]/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img] [img]/images/graemlins/wink.gif[/img]

Nothing wrong with hanging out with the guy, regardless of your status. The wife and I both have friends of the opposite sex. Whether you want to let this guy take things further later is up to you, but as you said, doing it without Sam could lead to trouble at home. Of course, it's easy for me to comment from my PC on the other side of the planet without really knowing either of you and whether your relationship could hold up to it.

You're a smart chick, Krista. I'm sure you'll do what's right for you. [img]/images/graemlins/smile.gif[/img]

[dinkyjacksonman]

Re: I need a mans point of view.....

WHAT!?!?
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Or Sam can get his tattoo on his thing.
Maybe a Tattoo of his Les Paul.
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