OK, now a sad news to tell....I need your help.

[dinkyjacksonman]

I posted a thread about my wife 's pregnancy about 10days ago and we were expecting a second child in 8months.
Guess what.. it seems like we just lost the baby last night.
My wife was breeding a little after coming back from a trip over the weekend and went to check with the doctor yesterday and today.
The doctor confirmed we did lose the baby....

I was thinking of not posting this but really I can't take it all by myself.I am about to go crazy thinking what went wrong....

I hope to get some words from you guys and hope my wife to see this and feels better as well..
My wife knows I posted the news and she was so happy to see you guys were happy about our news.

[Brad]

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Aw Hell, Toru.... I know this must be tough... Your family is in our prayers, Bro....

[Budman68]

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<font color="aqua">Jeez toru, I'm so sorry for you and your wife. As hard as it is right now, be strong my friend, it will get easier with time. Our hearts and thoughts will be with you ... </font>

[kremit]

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So sad man. Be strong and pull through this - you and your wife are eachothers best supporters.

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[atomic charvel guy]

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man i am sorry toru. i wish i could offer some help
but i don't know how i could. you and your wife
should definitely lean on each other. i'm sorry.

[Guest]

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Dude, that certainly does suck! But... And I always believe this, it happened for a reason, what that reason is? Who knows, but it will come aorund.

Chin up bro!

Pat

[hippietim]

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Sorry to hear about this. Based on personal experience I can say that the most important thing to do now is to take care of your wife. Even if she seems fine, she isn't.

[the_drip]

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Best not to think about what went wrong. Nothign you could control. Best wishes.

You can always try again?

[jackson1]

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I'm speechless, toru! This must hurt so much. I am truly sorry for you and your wife. Go hug your first child and find comfort.

[Manyaxes]

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I am soooo sorry to here that! I totally agree with Pat. Everything happens for a reason and the reason is for the best. You and your wife WILL get through this....be strong and know we all have you in our prayers...

The Macaulay family...

[tonemonster]

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Wow....I really dont know what to say to help you man, other than I am really sorry to hear that and you certianly have my thoughts with you. I cant begin to imagine what you and your wife are going through right now, but keep the faith and be there for each other. Things must seem pretty bad now, but hang in there man, things will work out. Keep the faith!

Best wishes,
Tone

[dinkyjacksonman]

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Thank you so much everyone.
As I am typing this out, tears coming out.
We really wanted this especially my wife.
Like Pat said, maybe there was a reason for this.
That is exactly what I said to my wife last night but there are more than hundreds of reasons we had to have this child...

[No Use]

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toru, brother, i hear you brother, its gotta be so hard man. my condolences, and i'll try to pray for you guys to get through this...i dunno if you're a religious man or not, but i feel the Lord's with you man. this might not be the best thing for me to say right now, but He plans everything out, and He has a reason for everything. and He doesn't give you anything you can't handle. you're the man, toru.

[txcharvel]

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Hey bro, my wife is pregnant right now so I can imagine what you must be going through. We had some complications initially with our first son and we were in a bad car wreck with our second. It's tough man, but God has a way of making his plan work. I know for a fact that he won't give you anything you can't handle.

We'll pray for you man,
Patrick

[BTB007]

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My wife had a miscarriage before we had our first daughter and I'm sorry to say it's very rough. I do have some advice to give you that we learned through some counselors we had. I'm not sure where your wife was in her pregnancy, but the body can sense if something isn't right in the development of a baby and will naturally try to get rid of it. This isn't easy to hear (or read), but chances are if this baby had been born, he/she would have had some sort of problem(s).
On a better note, my wife and I gave a name to our child that we lost. I strongly encourage you and your wife to give a name so that you can have some kind of connection with the baby.
Toru, sorry and hang in there.
Brian