OK, now a sad news to tell....I need your help.

[paige]

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Hey man I don't usually respond on personal posts but this is a hard one. Back when I was younger I had a child born that passed away after 3 months. Man it is hard but after you get over the initial pain and have some time to look the situation over you will see that it is not as bad as you think or feel. The hardest part is the baggage (and there is some for both) on the wife, she will be hurting emotionally. I wish you the best of luck and god bless.

[LUVGUN]

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I'm so sorry to hear this.
Unfortunately, these things do happen.
Take care of each other and things will get better.
We'll pray for you both.

[LesPaulCustom]

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<font color="yellow">Toru:

Krista and I offer our deepest condolences. Unfortunately, there is not a whole lot one can say when something like this happens.

Like others have said, take care of your wife, and also yourself.

You will need each other to get through this.

All our best:
Sam and Krista </font>

[kmanick]

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Toru, that's terrible news man,I'm so sorry to hear this,your wife needs you more now than ever, take care of each other and as hard as it seems you'll pull thru this some how. You and your family wil be in our prayers.

[nor]

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My condolences to you and your family, Toru.

[dinkyjacksonman]

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Thank you again to all.
Yes I will take good care of my wife and she will have a clean up at a hospital to make sure she is not getting any infection or problems.

She started bleeding 3days ago and we were so worried.
She freaked out last night when she knew she was losing the baby...
The doctor this afternoon also told her the same thing as you guys are saying.
It happened because her body was not ready and good that this happened earlier than later.

[Ace]

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My thoughts go out to you and your family. It is good to see that the JCF is a place that one can turn to in times of need. Strange as it is, this forum has sort of a feel of an anonymous family. Peace be with you.

[mhalsey]

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Toru,

It's tough now, I know, but stay strong my friend. I pray that your family's pain is quickly eased.

[RacerX]

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Deepest sympathies to you &amp; yours.

[Lev]

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Sorry to hear that man [img]/images/graemlins/frown.gif[/img]

My Aunt and Uncle tried having a child for years and went through 2 miscarriages, eventually they were able to have a baby girl who's now my favorite cousin and just an amazing kid... keep trying Toru.

[zeegler]

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All I can say is, that being in a very similar position in life, I understand how you feel right now. I know it feels like there is nothing good about it, but you sometimes have to believe, or at least convince yourself, that things happen for a reason. Your wife's body did what it did for a reason. Maybe it saved her life. No one will ever know. But, when it does happen, and everything goes right, it's just that much more perfect, and it will!!!!!

[VitaminG]

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I'm so sorry to hear this, Toru. I know how excited you were when you told us. The wife &amp; I faced a similar thing a few years ago. I know it's no consolation, but you can both get through this.

[StukaJU87]

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I am so sorry to hear this bad news bro.

[Drsracing]

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As I've learned, there's always a storm before the sunshine, Go take care of your wife, she's gonna need it. spend some time as a familey and sooner then later the fun part of trying again comes to you

[toejam]

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Sorry to hear, Toru. It just wasn't meant to be at the moment. My condolences to you and your wife. It happened to my mom before she got pregnant with me, and it happened to a friend of mine and his wife in the late '90s when she got pregnant the first time. They had a daughter a couple years later and everything was fine. Keep trying and keep your spirits up. [img]/images/graemlins/smile.gif[/img]