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[scaz]

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Sorry for the news...not much to offer here but to hang in there and be strong. Take care of your wife and child and things will get better...

[Boxcar Willie 84]

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I'm really sorry to hear about this bro. My parents lost my older brother when he was born, but on the bright side, they have 3 strapping young lads now. Things will be alright in the long run even if they don't seem like they will be right now.

[Creepy]

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Man, I don't know you at all, but for what it's worth coming from someone you've never talked to or met, I'm truly sorry. I can only imagine how you and your wife must feel. My condolences.

[mm2002]

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I'm not going to try and compare stories with you bro. I'm speechless at this point. Just be strong and get through this. I've been there and it isn't easy but like all things it will pass. You take care and give the wife a big hug from me and mine. Most importantly, try again!
Take care bro.

[Manyaxes]

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I just got off the phone with Chuckracer and he sends his deepest sympathies. He apologizes for not being able to respond in person but his internet connection is down until tomorrow. You and the misses hang in there, we're all thinking of you.......

[Emthrax]

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Toru and Mrs. Toru,

Ohhh. I am sorry to hear this news. [img]/images/graemlins/frown.gif[/img]
It's hard to know what to say to offer comfort during such a heart wrenching time, but having family and loved ones around is comforting- and you certainly have that. And you have each other, which is the most important.
Take care and be well.

Hugs to the both of you,
Em

[sambencuda]

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I'm so sorry for both you and your wife Toru. I cannot imagine how this must feel. I might sound kinda silly, but if there is anything I can do, don't hesitate to ask. Not sure how I could help, but I am here for ya. Even if just to BS or anything. Your family will be in my prayers.

Hang in there brother.

[RattleHead]

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Sorry to hear this bro, it must be unimaginably disapointing. The best thing to do in tough times is always to keep moving forward you know? You guys will have your second child when the time is right, try and be positive even though it must hurt like hell.

[dinkyjacksonman]

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Thank you so much to everyone!
My wife read all the messages posted here and would like to say thank you so much.
She feels so much better now by reading the posts and says she is so glad that I have wonderful friends on this message board.
She is getting to feel so much better now and has been talking with her family and her friends on the phone.

[jazzman]

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Dude, that sucks! If it makes you feel any better, my wife had a hard time getting pregnant. (she had some ovarian problems) We went to a specialist for 3 years until it fianally worked. Within 2 weeks she ended up in the emergency room because of bleeding. The doctors wanted to remove it because it was all the signs of miscarriage. The specialist recomended we see him before anything.

All seemed fine until a week later she was in the ER again. Same problem. This went on for about 5 or 6 times. Things started to look better so we went on vacation. We wanted to take our son to Florida before the baby came. We even ended up in the hospital down there. It was a complete rollercoaster ride. We were both an emotional wreck! We couldn't even have a good time. We couldn't show it in front of our son so I think that made it worse. I almost feel bad saying that we ended up having the baby, but I guess I'm saying I know the emotional trauma of what this can do. My wife almost ended up in a mental institute. (really, not kidding)

Be there for her. I don't know your wife (or you for that matter) But, I think a lot of women can break down easier than men do. She needs you. I'm sure you guys will have another shot at it hopefully. I really don't know what else to say. How could anywone know what to say at a time like this. It just sucks PERIOD!!!!!!!!

[ApeDosMil]

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I'm sorry to hear that, I can't imagine the pain of loosing a child [img]/images/graemlins/frown.gif[/img]

[Number Of The Priest]

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This is absolutely heartbreaking. Deepest condolences to you and your wife from the whole JCF family. You are not alone and we are all thinking and praying for you. Remain strong!

[mudkicker]

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Toru,
I wish there was something that I or anyone else here could do for you and your wife to ease your pain. Find strength in each other. You have my sincere and deepest condolences.

Brian

[Jacksonfan]

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Toru, I am so sorry for you and your family's loss. I can't imagine how hard it is to go through something like this personally. But I remember how hard it was for my Mother and Stepfather when they lost a son several years ago. There was a problem and they had to take the baby early. I was looking forward to having a brother or sister, being an only child. As hard as it was they carried on, and a while later they had a Daughter. As devastated as we were with the loss, I can't imagine not having my sister( I love her very much ) It's been said many times before but it's true that everything happens for a reason. Give my best to your family and take care of them and yourself.

My thoughts and prayers are with your family.
May God bless and comfort you all.


Sincerely,
Chris

[Donovan]

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Well.... Don't blame yourself or your wife. It's nothing that was within your means to control. This just happens in nature sometimes. It doesn't make it easier but what can you do but move on from here.
My sister lost a baby at about 6 months and it was a big deal. We had to mourn for a bit but also realize that it was just God's will and there's no questioning that.