would you spill the beans...

[vitovanhalen]

Scenario: A couple who my wife and I know. We are not close friends with them. We just know them through the community. She (the wife) has been screwing her boss (who is married with a 3 year old) for about 6 months. She has 4 kids. The situation is sick and I feel real bad for this guy. Would you anonymously tell her husband what's been going on?

[mwm70]

Re: would you spill the beans...

YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[VulfgangPfuck]

Re: would you spill the beans...

I wouldn't want that on my head, but coming out of a situation similar to this one (no kids involved though)...I'd figure out some way to tell him....yeah..anonymously. Just make sure you can come up with some kind of proof to back yourself up though.

[Chuckracer]

Re: would you spill the beans...

It's none of your business.

[LesPaulCustom]

Re: would you spill the beans...

<font color="yellow">Why?

With all due respect, what right do you have to impart your morality or ethics upon them?

I'm not saying what is happening is "right", but it is really none of your concern.

I hate it when people get into other peoples lives.

Leave it alone man....it will work itself out. </font>

[hippietim]

Re: would you spill the beans...

Bravo LPC!

[GodOfRhythm]

Re: would you spill the beans...

I would definitly.

[LesPaulCustom]

Re: would you spill the beans...

<font color="yellow"> That is just so heinously, bogusly fukked up.

What do you hope to obtain by telling...you yourself said you weren't really close friends...why do you care who's knocking the bottom out of her [img]/images/graemlins/scratchhead.gif[/img]

Thanks Tim [img]/images/graemlins/toast.gif[/img] [img]/images/graemlins/headbang.gif[/img] </font>

[Chuckracer]

Re: would you spill the beans...

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The situation is sick and I feel real bad for this guy.

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That's why you want to wade in. To make yourself feel better. You want to fix it cause you don't like it.
THAT'S wrong. I don't blame you for not liking it, but it really is none of your business.
How do you know they all don't already know about it, and in fact are encouraging it? Perhaps they are all participating, filming each other or something.

Leave it alone.

[vitovanhalen]

Re: would you spill the beans...

I don't want to make myself feel better about anything. I just think if it were me I would want to know. Obviously I don't think that it's automatically right to get involved otherwise I wouldn't be getting opinions. But my gut was telling me that destiny will work it out and I should just leave it alone.

[LesPaulCustom]

Re: would you spill the beans...

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But my gut was telling me that destiny will work it out and I should just leave it alone.

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<font color="yellow">Good answer [img]/images/graemlins/headbang.gif[/img] [img]/images/graemlins/toast.gif[/img]

Leave it alone [img]/images/graemlins/wink.gif[/img] </font>

[Chuckracer]

Re: would you spill the beans...

Yep, that's probably the best way to look at it.

VitoVH, I was just saying that you were drawn to fixing it cause it made you uncomfortable. That doesn't make you a bad person, quite the opposite in fact.

[Guest]

Re: would you spill the beans...

WOW, that's a loaded one...

I've been in this situation before, looking in from the outside and I looked at this person in disguist, but, you have no idea what's going on in any of their "personal" lives, so yes I agree, leave it alone bro... People get killed all the time over this very topic, I would just stear clear bro...

On a lighter note and nothing but humor... What does she look like? You could always blackmail them, [img]/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img] [img]/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img] And you could always fund a couple of custom shops from it... [img]/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img] [img]/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img] [img]/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img] j/k, [img]/images/graemlins/poke.gif[/img]

Pat

[LesPaulCustom]

Re: would you spill the beans...

<font color="yellow">Good ol' Pat...always thinking [img]/images/graemlins/toast.gif[/img] [img]/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img] [img]/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img] [img]/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img] [img]/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img] </font>

[VulfgangPfuck]

Re: would you spill the beans...

Yeah...double thinking my original opinion here....just leave it alone. If it's not a close personal friend or family member, then best to steer clear of it.