would you spill the beans...

[jazzman]

Re: would you spill the beans...

If it were me, I'd want to know. But, I don't like other people in my business either. And, I'm not sure what I would do in your situation. It may be best to leave it be.

[horns666]

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it's all a matter of principle and or self preservation and satifaction ...and only "You" know what I mean ...

Nobody else here knows ...only you know what is the "best" thing to do ...that voice that guides you thru life in such matters....that voice is the voice of reason ...don't ignore it.

[Emthrax]

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It's good to know stuff about people that they think you don't know.

[Jack The Riffer]

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I still say blackmail her and hit her in the shitter.

[Guest]

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Vito, Did you ever tell us how you know this? (I didn't go back and read all the posts, but I don't recall seeing it, if so)

Personally, hell ya I'd want to know, I don't care how bad it hurts. Life is precious, every day, don't take advantage of that ( not speaking to you per se, but ya know )

Like I said man, it's a loaded one, and Bill adds some great thoughts. Scary as that sounds... [img]/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img] [img]/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img] [img]/images/graemlins/poke.gif[/img]

[EDIT] Nevermind, not going thete [EDIT]

Let us know what you do, if anything. Don't forget, X-Mas is coming, bad time of the year for things like this...

Pat

[vitovanhalen]

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Vito, Did you ever tell us how you know this? (I didn't go back and read all the posts, but I don't recall seeing it, if so)

Personally, hell ya I'd want to know, I don't care how bad it hurts. Life is precious, every day, don't take advantage of that ( not speaking to you per se, but ya know )

Like I said man, it's a loaded one, and Bill adds some great thoughts. Scary as that sounds...

[EDIT] Nevermind, not going thete [EDIT]

Let us know what you do, if anything. Don't forget, X-Mas is coming, bad time of the year for things like this...

Pat


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My wife told me and I know it's true. Yes Bill makes good points - I was actually looking forward to his opinion and, as always, they never fail to deliver. I'm not going to do anything about it. They're all going to get what they deserve with or w/o my involvement. I've got better things to do than fuk with these trolls.

[ABSOLUT CHARVEL]

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The sad part is how the guy is going to get screwed because his wife is banging someone else. He will lose his house, half his pension, most his money for years (child support) and time with his kids. The boss could end up living in his house when the wife of the boss finds out. The worst of the deal is how all these kids involved are going to screwed.

[Shawn Lutz]

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The sad part is how the guy is going to get screwed because his wife is banging someone else. He will lose his house, half his pension, most his money for years (child support) and time with his kids. The boss could end up living in his house when the wife of the boss finds out. The worst of the deal is how all these kids involved are going to screwed.

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That is exactly right. A lot of people don't realize that, it doesn't matter if she's doing the ol in and out with her boss or is the neighborhood slut nailing the entire town. The guy loses the home and kids, pays child support until they are 18 (which should anyway) and alimony even if her boss moves in his house. The guy lose everything, the kids lose their father. The guy ends up having to live on less that half of what he had before. It truly sucks...No offense vitovanhalen but if you do decide to tell the guy, you are going to need more proof than you wife telling you so, like pictures or video. I'm not saying is not true but maybe she heard it from a women who is jealous of the biotches custom fun bags and just hates its that she can have them, I dunno but I hear a lot women gossip and you'll be amazed on how they can actually believe stuff that isn't true through the grapevine.

[OnlineStageGear]

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Put yourself in the shoes of the guy that is getting screwed around on. If I was (not saying he is) completely oblivious to the situation I would want, even though I probably would not like it, to hear that the two bit ho I married was crushing the donkey she worked for. This way I could begin the process of moving on past this relationship that is obviously over.

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That's what I was thinking. I would want to know so I could kick the %$@#%$# to the curb.

Matt

[hippietim]

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And if you do get pictures or video don't forget about your JCF friends [img]/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img]

[Guest]

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[img]/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img] [img]/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img] Tru dat!!!

Pat

[Outlander]

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If it doesn't effect you or yours, Leave it alone!
If you feel that strongly about it then seek out one of the husbands best friends and tell them your concerns and let them deal with it.It's no fun being the last to know.There could be more to the story and it may not be true. As Shawn said some woman are funny and vengeful and will go to great lengths to damage others. Unless you know first hand,leave it be.

[Chameleonfong]

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I third that! [img]/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img]


Fong

[mm2002]

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If the guy is a decent person, and is being cheated on, he definitely needs a "heads up". The sooner he can gather some evidence and hire an attorney the better for him. I'm not saying you have to go tell him face to face. Maybe just somehow leave him an anonymous note clueing him in on what you "heard". I know if I were him I'd be extremely pissed if I found later that everyone in town knew about it but all kept their mouths shut. I totally disagree with all the "it's none of your business" logic. A lot of crimes have taken place when someone that could have helped the victim chose to turn their head the other way. Does this mean that if something doesn't affect you personally that it's ok to just ignore it?

[Birdzeyeee]

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If you feel compelled to tell (and only if you have solid proof), at least wait until the holidays are over with. Don't ruin it for the kids by revealing this until after Jan 1.

And I wouldn't do it face to face or let them know it was me that was revealing the info - you set yourself up for reprocussions that are better avoided for your own personal safety. (Nutcases going off.) Go with your conscousiness.