would you spill the beans...

[Guest]

Re: would you spill the beans...

Someone, at least one, brought a very good point here...

It's been known that in a divorce with children involved, the husband/father gets screwed 90%+ of the time (guessing at that stat) but we all know it's up there.

In this case, if the husband/father were to be notified, that may be another case that falls to our side, speaking as a father/husband myself that is.

Dunno, just a thought, but I personally would want to know and I'd pay a reasonable "finder's fee" for this type of information.

It's certainly a tough predicament to be in, that's for sure...

Best,

Pat

[lerxstcat]

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Tell him, you'd want to know if it were you.He can hire the PI to prove it, that's not your job. Better he finds out in a controlled way than walk in on them and someone gets killed. Hell, she could be planning to kill HIM so she doesn't have to give up half. The guy deserves to know so he can defend himself physically and financially.You can probably tell who's fukking other guys' wives by the way the answers are falling here! [img]/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img]

[Guest]

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Pat

[Cleveland Metal]

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Doh!!!!!

[vitovanhalen]

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It doesn't matter (at least in Ohio) if she's making gang bang porno behind his back. She still would get half of all assets, none of the debt and a monthly income. Why waste money on a PI?

[Tekky]

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I say leave it be. There are times when you do need to get involved, like when there's no doubt that it's a life-threatening situation. However you're not sure of the situation. There's no reason for you to fan the flames. Besides, there's no telling what could happen to you if you got involved.

[Guest]

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http://www.cheaters.com/

Give him the link, but only if you're sure.
Let the show do the rest.

[Guest]

Re: would you spill the beans...

[img]/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img] I was going to recommend that as well, but I can't decide which side of the fence I want to fall to... [img]/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img]

Pretty decent show, IMO.

Pat

[Deneb]

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This is none of your business. You cannot go around, policing everyone else's lives, just to make a morality judgment on something. You do not agree with it. So don't cheat on your spouse.

People in life need happiness. If they're that sick in their relationships, and this makes them that much happier, to be better parents, or spouses, more power to them. In life, only one person looks out for you, and that's yourself. Granted, I understand a parent (good one) looks out for their child, but what I mean is this,
regardless of political affiliation, or religion, one person has made me who I am, and that is myself. It does not matter if I vote for Gore, Bush, Kerry, my dead mom, or anyone, or what God if I believe in one, that I believe in. My choices are made, by me, for me, to benefit me.


I would not get involved in their life. Other than the reasons above, say they do find out you're the one who said something. You're the one who spilled the beans, and ruined the families. Lying is only lying if you're not protection someone from the truth. If these people are still functioning at home, then hey, screw it, they will mess up on their own time. When they do, if you believe in God, they will have to atone, if you don't, whatever happens happens, if you believe in karma, something will get them.

Stay out, because you wouldn't want someone telling on you if you were cheating.

[Cleveland Metal]

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Stay out, because you wouldn't want someone telling on you if you were cheating.

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Yeah, great reasoning there... hehe... [img]/images/graemlins/eyes.gif[/img]

And if he did tell him, he wouldn't be ruining the family, the biotch has already done that by being a tramp.

[monk]

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Yeah, I would also tell him. Or, even better, tell his wife that you know what´s going on. That might force her to tell him herself, or atleast stop screwing around.

[lerxstcat]

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Stay out, because you wouldn't want someone telling on you if you were cheating.

[/ QUOTE ]So, Deneb, how long have you been screwing aroung on your girlfriend? [img]/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img] That long and rambling post is hiding something; fess up! [img]/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]I wouldn't want someone telling on me if were a murderer either, but I'd DESERVE to have them tell on me in either case; so would you, or this woman who's throwing her family away.

[Tetsuo]

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[ QUOTE ]
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Stay out, because you wouldn't want someone telling on you if you were cheating.

[/ QUOTE ]So, Deneb, how long have you been screwing aroung on your girlfriend? [img]/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img] That long and rambling post is hiding something; fess up! [img]/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]I wouldn't want someone telling on me if were a murderer either, but I'd DESERVE to have them tell on me in either case; so would you, or this woman who's throwing her family away.

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Exactly... Just because she is throwing away her family doesn't mean he shouldn't get heads up on what is going on because you can't police anyone elses morality. If there were not kids involved I would say who cares but there are and that adds more weight to it. Bill is right though only you know what should be done. If you do this simply just leave a note saying Check the time your Wife and her Boss are spending together or something. He already knows I am sure he just needs to hear it to get his level of observation up on the situation...

[mwm70]

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And if he did tell him, he wouldn't be ruining the family, the biotch has already done that by being a tramp.

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A truer statement has never been spoken, or in this case typed.

[xenophobe]

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Do what you would feel morally inclined to do. Not doing so will leave you feeling like you did the wrong thing. Beware, there are consequences, and you'll definitely pay one way or another. Karma is a bitch. Don't get on the bad side of it.

On a side note, I'd agree with Bill. If there isn't any fun or excitement in your life, either blackmail her for sex and guitars, or tell the husband and sit back and [img]/images/graemlins/popcorn.gif[/img]