me and my new ex....

[Burn]

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a little off topic, but I can't believe I've been here for two years and am still a junior.......lol

[jgcable]

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Stop being a wimp and move on. There are plenty of fish out there. If you really want her back you will need to do the following:
1. Treat here like total crap
2. Bang a few of here close friends
3. Don't return any of her phone calls until you are really drunk and abusive.
4. Repeat # 2.

[lerxstcat]

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Careful about that rebound stuff, man! Like Profusion said, don't just hang at her disposal. I think it might be worse if you're with her and her stepdad's your singer. If you split with her, he's under pressure to leave your band. If you're just friends with her, that pressure is not there.

You should play the field as a musician, and be friends with her. You ca be fukk buddies once in awhile if it's convenient for both, but a strong tie is not the best idea.

If you're on the road and have hookup chances, right now you and the singer would be spies on each other, beholden to your women. Just by YOU not being solely with his stepdaughter, you become hunting buddies instead, which for guys in a rock or metal band together is a much healthier relationship. Not saying you should encourage him to fukk around on his wife, but you'd be free, and if he DOES fukk around you don't have to feel torn about keeping the secret.

It's up to you, but you're coming back in a state of weakness at her command; she's not going to respect that, ultimately.

Anyway, you can post even if you're not going through heartbreak, dude! Speak up a little more and you'll leave that Junior thing far behind! Good luck whatever you do!

[Shawn Lutz]

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I'd take the free tang card and run! I'd go out and there and try for as many greatest hits as I can [img]/images/graemlins/smile.gif[/img]

Seriously tho, I know its tough to do but I wouldn't be able to trust her again, she tapped out once...chances she'll tap out again. There are far too many beautiful women out there. Why spend time with one that more than likley will not work out. Run like the wind and enjoy the journey that leads you there.

[Burn]

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the break up was more my falt..... I **** up....at first I jumped on the free man thing then I came down off that......

[Ace]

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your caught in her tractor beam my friend. prepare to be boarded, robbed, raped and left for dead.

[lerxstcat]

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[ QUOTE ]
the break up was more my falt..... I **** up....at first I jumped on the free man thing then I came down off that......

[/ QUOTE ]Then she'll use that aganst you for the rest of the relationship. She will never truly forgive you if you fukked around on her, she'll just wait for the right chance to beat you down the worst way possible. It was great, now it's over, it can only get uglier from here.I'd guess a guitarist in an established band would be able to snatch her right away from you now, and the extrapain that'd put you through would be appealing to her. Maybe not this minute while you're kissing her ass, but the first time y'all have a fuss, BAM! She's holding a rightful retaliation card. If you've been fighting for 2 of 3 years, you're not compatible, even if you do love each other. There's someone out there who's a better match for you, ad a bunch more you can have fun with til you meet her. Just don't think you have to fall in love with every girl you have sex with, otherwise stormy love affairs will be a pattern for you, and that sucks.

[hammer84]

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Here is some advice I wish some one had given me after my first love and I parted ways. There are 6.2 billion people on the planet, more than half are chicks. MOVE ON !!!!

Your story aounds a lot like mine when I was 16. Long relationship, break up, she goes and bangs another guy while I sit and sulk, she comes back, hurray, lasts a short time, we then hate each other. BTW, being chummy with her mom or step dad is not going to help. Chick hate that crap. Unless you want to fvck her mom [img]/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img]

It would have been better to end it the first time and not ending up hating each other. No I have to go to my HS reunions and talk to that b*itch [img]/images/graemlins/cool.gif[/img]

Here were my rules of dating when I was young and single:
(if you are in a band these are very simple to follow )
1) Fvck em ALL !!! Don't fall in love, its just sex. Do you fall in love with your right (or left) hand.
2) Never tell a chick your life story, they will use it against you in some evil way. ( there is that mystery thing again )
3) 3 strikes my a**, they are one and done then on to the next chick.
4) There is always more and better ones were the last last one came from......
5) fvck em all again !!!!

Once I lived by these rules my life was much better, never depressed or sulking, unless I passed up some action to go to a movie [img]/images/graemlins/smile.gif[/img]

BTW, I ended up meeting my wife living this way. We have been happily married now for over 13 years with two awesome kids and I can look back and say...no regrets !!!

[thetroy]

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So I used to think I was pretty liberal, but after reading some of the posts here it turns out I'm old-fashioned and very conservative when it comes to relationships. Weird

[SEEGERMANY]

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Oh Gawddamn, move the phuck on before you have the whole JCF slitting their wrists.

[Ace]

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Thanks GERMANDETH!! Next week on the O.C. ...

[Reverend Timmy]

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Time to grow up a little,Burn.Ace said it all.So did Germandeth.You were lookin when you found her.....You stay with her now and your gonna be used like a welcome mat....

[sully]

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i think that you need a weekend at brett's guy camp. always remember what my great grandfather said: "the best way to get over someone is to get under someone." now move on; you're probably one good date away from being over the whole thing. quit pining away and move on with your life.

sully

[Ace]

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My grandma used to say "No fat chicks!"

[sully]

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....perhaps we're related! [img]/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img]