still loving.......

[ABSOLUT CHARVEL]

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move out of state.

[Gtrplyr666]

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i think you should ask brett for advice. he's good at this sort of thing.

Garry [img]/images/graemlins/headbang.gif[/img]

[guitar geek]

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It is rather hard to remain friends after a relationship break up. if it kills one of the two, at least the one who stays alive should have the wit to stay away, to give the dead one a break.

I don't have really experience in this field, I only had to break up once and that was not because one did not love the other anymore, so that is not really a ground for giving advice

harrald

[donf]

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i do attract the biggest psycho babes that roam this planet

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I don't know Tommy, I married one in '81 and suffered all the way up to '93. Good thing is she left in 93, [img]/images/graemlins/toast.gif[/img] haven't seen or heard from her since. Bad thing is I had to raise my sons by myself,........well...come to think of it, it wasn't that bad of a thing, except for my sons not having a mother of course.

Nevertheless, a super psycho bitch, stealing, lying, screwing around...............It's over!

[Cleveland Metal]

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Wow DonF, your post sounds like I wrote it, I had pretty much the same situation as well...

I'm not one to be in the position of giving good advice, as I'm spending a lot of energy salvalging my own relationship right now and probably should be devoting that energy to a new relationship. But I have to try or I know I'll look back and wish that I had.

Nonethless, if you know it's over, get away from her, and devote to ANYTHING else bro. Hanging with her is like keeping a knife in you and twisting it over and over, the wound will just never heal.

You're young, and you should move on man. It isn't easy when you care for someone so much, I know, I'm right there with you right now actually in my situation. I'm trying to make it work, and it might so I'll see where we go. But, there comes a point where you have to go and cut all ties. The pain will chill after a while. Usually after you get cool with some other nice babe. Been there many times in my life. I'll be there again I'm sure.

Sully's post pretty much sums it up, listen to him.

I wish you luck and the strength to deal with the feelings you will have to experience.

[sully]

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looks like donf, cmz, and i are in the same psycho baby-momma boat! [img]/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img]

good luck, kid. and seriously, you really gotta cut all ties and move forward. men and women usually become friends b/c one is into the other. if it's not mutual, you stay friends. if it is mutual, you date. i've dated some really nice people in my life, and some that were not so nice. while i can be friendly with the ones who were nice, i probably haven't talked to any of them in at least a few years. there's no reason to. it's not that they aren't nice, and admirable people, they are. but the relationships that i had with them started b/c of romantic interest. since it didn't work out, there's really no reason at all to remain in contact. i wish them nothing but the best in life, but i don't need to be a part of it.

suck it up, cut all ties, and take one step closer to improving the quality of your life.

dr. sully

[RacerX]

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looks like donf, cmz, and i are in the same psycho baby-momma boat! [img]/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img]

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And me: my ex-gf was literally a certified schizophrenic.

I believe Toejam will be along also to retell his tale of woe. [img]/images/graemlins/frown.gif[/img]

[sully]

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wow, did you have a kid together that you have custody of, too? YIKES! more common than i thought!

[donf]

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Cleve Metal
Best thing that ever happened. I moved on and found myself a new girlfriend........my guitar!. It was all I had except for my kids. It took 3 years to even start dating, but I met a good person to hang out with in 97, and about 5 yrs later, I remarried. My sons are older now and on their own. I hope they never forget how hard it was, but I know they don't remember. I really hope they don't remember.

Thing always work out even though it seems like your on a dead end road,.....they always do, somehow. [img]/images/graemlins/scratchhead.gif[/img]

[donf]

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looks like donf, cmz, and i are in the same psycho baby-momma boat!


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I wonder,....what was I thinking at that time? [img]/images/graemlins/scratchhead.gif[/img]

[Hyperfuzz]

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1. Ditto Sully advice.

2. You'll be ok.

3. You'll look back one day and quote DonF and say something along the lines of "What the **** was I thinking?!?"

[RacerX]

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Nah, I'm too smart to spill my seed! [img]/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img]

[Drake S.]

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2 Things Man 1rst some strip club Therapy. The best way to get over somebody is to get under somebody [img]/images/graemlins/headbang.gif[/img]
I was with the same woman for 12 years a Complete Psycho nut job, & she has a bad temper. I call her my ex-wife.
It took along time to get over her Mainly because of our son Drake I stayed alone for a couple of years, should have stayed longer. I now have a great woman in my life becuase I took the time to think about me & improve my life first.
I've been told you can't be happy with somebody else ,or love somebody else unless your happy with yourself. Take the time man don't you think you deserve that much for yourself. I know I did. Good Luck man.

[Burn]

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well, apparently "I'm ruining her life, and we can't be friends, she doesn't want to talk to me anymore" or something... I guess it's for the best, so I'm gunna just try to move on......I just hope I don't get a phone call in a week or two....... This shit is so hard man.......thanks all of you for being there for me...I know I sound whiny... but at least you know what I mean...... the worst part about this is, I can't pick up a guitar without thinking about her.....so I'm constantly thinking about her.

[Badseed]

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There was a song written that you should listen to.Its called "if you cant be with the one you love , love the one your with". I might've taken the wrong way since i didnt leave my house for 6 months, the tissue paper box was spring loaded ,But those things happen when you have high speed internet and plenty of "time" on your hands. [img]/images/graemlins/tongue.gif[/img]

Good times are ahead of you, you just cant see them yet.

You'll find someone who appreciates you for who you are and will inspire you to be better,not make you feel inferrior and constantly doubting yourself.

You need to go on a "1 strike and your out" rampage.The second you think she's phscho, run,that voice in your head knows more then you do. I know you can do it.Treat em like shake and bake. [img]/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img]