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[Top Jimmy B]

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Confidence, not arrogance, is the key. Treat her with respect and let her know you are interested and if she digs you, you will know right away. If she's not interested it sounds like you will have some pretty good spankin' material to work with. [img]/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img]

Don't sweat the scars on your back...they are not who you are and will have no bearing on whether she digs you or not. If Chuck can score with lumpy arms and I can stil woo my wife with only one ball, anything is possible. [img]/images/graemlins/toast.gif[/img]

[zeegler]

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Dude, just whip it out! [img]/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img]

[GodOfRhythm]

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Don't worry Michael! I've got scars on my back as well, that was why I was so scared: 'omg what is she going to say/do when I tell/show her', my self confidence was pretty much ZERO.

Most women don't even notice until the 5th time or something anyways, and most of the time they won't think any less of you, and if they do, fuck 'em.

[Jason1212]

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+1
If she so superficial to not see beyond any exterior flaws( we all have them) then you're better off with out that one.
There is a match for you out there somewhere, but you have to ask the questions to find it. If you dont end up with the relationship you are looking for you will at least get experience.

[Evol]

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Dude,if she's russian then there's only one thing you need... Vodka! Ok,maybe some orange juice too [img]/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img] [img]/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img]

Don't worry about your back,if everything goes ok YOU will be the one staring at her back [img]/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img] [img]/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img]

And if all else fails,take Zeegler's advise [img]/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img] [img]/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img] [img]/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img]

[StukaJU87]

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I'd rather have a few scars on my back than the hair sweater I am wearing. [img]/images/graemlins/tongue.gif[/img]

[GodOfRhythm]

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Wax, Scottt, Wax. [img]/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img] [img]/images/graemlins/eviltongue.gif[/img]

[toejam]

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Dude,if she's russian then there's only one thing you need... Vodka! Ok,maybe some orange juice too [img]/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img] [img]/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img]


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[StukaJU87]

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Wax, Scottt, Wax. [img]/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img] [img]/images/graemlins/eviltongue.gif[/img]

[/ QUOTE ] Won't that hurt like hell? If I get my back waxed, what then for my chest and stomach? Leave it?

Eh, I am gonna be 42 in January so I'll learn to embrace my harriness. [img]/images/graemlins/tongue.gif[/img]

[StukaJU87]

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Dude,if she's russian then there's only one thing you need... Vodka! Ok,maybe some orange juice too [img]/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img] [img]/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img]


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[/ QUOTE ] And tell her there is no shortage of toilet paper at your place either. [img]/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img]

[Guest]

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Dude...........

"ESCORT"

Have fun...

Pat

[GodOfRhythm]

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Wax, Scottt, Wax. [img]/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img] [img]/images/graemlins/eviltongue.gif[/img]

[/ QUOTE ] Won't that hurt like hell? If I get my back waxed, what then for my chest and stomach? Leave it?

Eh, I am gonna be 42 in January so I'll learn to embrace my harriness. [img]/images/graemlins/tongue.gif[/img]

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I'll be honest, it DOES hurt like a mofo, but it's over so fast you'll be laughing more than hurting. You can have your back done completely, and just have your chest and stomach waxed into 'figure' (not just a wild bush anymore). You can then trim it a bit shorter with some scissors.

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Queer eye for the straight guy! [img]/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img] [img]/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img] [img]/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img]

[Emthrax]

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Wax, Scottt, Wax. [img]/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img] [img]/images/graemlins/eviltongue.gif[/img]

[/ QUOTE ] Won't that hurt like hell? If I get my back waxed, what then for my chest and stomach? Leave it?

Eh, I am gonna be 42 in January so I'll learn to embrace my harriness. [img]/images/graemlins/tongue.gif[/img]

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Some women enjoy their men hairy. Gives them something to pet and snuggle with. Don't need blankies! [img]/images/graemlins/wink.gif[/img]
A hairy man is a manly man!

[Drsracing]

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Dude...........

"ESCORT"

Have fun...

Pat

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Pat always has the best idea's [img]/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img]

[Inearthed]

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Hey Michael,

First advice is just to take it slow, be friends for now, talk to her and get to know her. After a while you're going to probably just have to read her and see if she's interested in something more. Look for the signs, next time you see her and you talk just watch how she reacts. Keep eye contact when talking, if she smiles a lot and looks away (basically acting shy) then she's probably interested. Smiles are a dead give away, but make sure you're not interpreting her looking away shyness when she's actually uncomfortable. Tell her you're going to get some food after class (or whatever time) and you'd like her to join you. Every woman is different so the situation might not go as stated above, so if you have any further questions down the road, feel free to bring them up.

For conversation stuff... Ask her about her interests, hobbies. Find things you have in common (which you've already done with the Russian, first step!).. Avoid asking/talking about future plans, past relationships, and business/work (at least while you're still getting to know each other).

As lots of other folks stated confidence is key, put nervousness aside, it is tough at first but you just have to do it. Most importantly, remember to be yourself if you want a long lasting relationship.

-R