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[ApeDosMil]

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Well, I've made eye contact with her, and she ain't shy. She has very pretty eyes, they are Blueish to Grey so I enjoy eye contact.

Thanks for the advice guys, it gives me a little better feeling about this. Usually I get really depressed when I get this crush stuff, I am a bit now because I just have that feeling about messing up again and regret.

[GodOfRhythm]

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If she keeps eye contact, that's DEFINITLY not a bad thing. She could be trying to reel you in! Just follow the advice as it's laid down here in this thread, and RELAX do not get down or start doubting yourself.

Number ONE rule and premise is: SELF-CONFIDENCE!

[Chuckracer]

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There's plenty of time for that after you mess it up...


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Sorry for that Mike, bad joke. But really, it's true. Don't screw up the now imagining things. That's how us men shoot ourselves in the foot before we even leave the camp.

I know you won't believe it, but...what if she is thinking the exact same things about you? You don't know that she isn't!

All the above advice...go slow, be confident, be yourself...and have fun! This is supposed to be fun, dammit!!

[ApeDosMil]

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Well I hope she is, shes really cool person. I hope she likes me, and I hope I don't blow the chance. This is probably a stupid question, but today we were working together (shes on the left side i'm next to her, and 2 people sit on the right of me. She leaned over next to me, to ask the other 2 people if we got the same answer. Shes pretty damn close (arms were touching) I stayed put and kept my arm there and she didn't move or anything. Maybe I'm just nit picking everything, but I'm guessing shes compterable with me. Maybe I'm just crazy haha.

Thanks again guys and gals.

[DonP]

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Think about this. Let's say it's 100 years from now and you are on your death bed. Do you want to have regrets like "gosh, if I only had...."

You only live once. Make the most of it.

[ApeDosMil]

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Yes.. I know..

I really want to just hang out with her, but I don't know if its too early to ask. I don't know if I should wait or not.

[Madness]

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So how long have ya known her now?....couple days? If you feel that she is acting differently towards you than other girls have (in a good way) than go for it. You'll know it if she's even a little interested. You will notice certain subtleties.


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If she keeps eye contact, that's DEFINITLY not a bad thing. She could be trying to reel you in! Just follow the advice as it's laid down here in this thread, and RELAX do not get down or start doubting yourself.

Number ONE rule and premise is: SELF-CONFIDENCE!


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Absolutely...and when you talk to her, look her in the eyes or at least at her...this will show that your confident.


"hair sweater" [img]/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img] [img]/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img] Scott, you crack me up.

[atomic charvel guy]

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all you have to do is make them laugh. and make it seem that no matter where you are , that it is the place to be at this time or you are nowhere.

[Jason1212]

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all you have to do is make them laugh. and make it seem that no matter where you are , that it is the place to be at this time or you are nowhere.

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Mike Damone couldnt have put it better himself. Dont forget to play some Zep too. [img]/images/graemlins/wink.gif[/img]

[ApeDosMil]

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"So how long have ya known her now?....couple days? If you feel that she is acting differently towards you than other girls have (in a good way) than go for it. You'll know it if she's even a little interested. You will notice certain subtleties."

I've known her for 5 weeks, but only really started talking to her for 3.

[Madness]

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I've known her for 5 weeks, but only really started talking to her for 3.

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Aww...hell yeah, go for it!

[Cleveland Metal]

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She leaned over next to me, to ask the other 2 people if we got the same answer. Shes pretty damn close (arms were touching) I stayed put and kept my arm there and she didn't move or anything. Maybe I'm just nit picking everything, but I'm guessing shes compterable with me. Maybe I'm just crazy haha.


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Nope, not nitpicking. You have to watch the signs... She is comfortable with you, and that was a "warming sign", to display she is comfortable with you being within her personal space.

Be confident, be charming, and don't forget your rubber. [img]/images/graemlins/smile.gif[/img]

All jokes aside, it sounds like a nice situation is coming along. Congrats and don't be "too" pushy, just be pushy (confidently aggressive) enough...

I hope things work out. You sound like you deserve some nice times.

[Guest]

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Picks of the escort pls.... [img]/images/graemlins/smile.gif[/img]

Pat

[ApeDosMil]

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So I grew my balls and asked her. She said she had a boyfriend. I waited about a hour for her because she was in class and damn I had the biggest heart exercise ever. I feel a bit down, but I rather feel this way then not ever asking her and feeling like a blown chance feeling. She still seemed cool with me so I hope were still friends.

[Cleveland Metal]

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Stay active with her... Boyfriends come and go! Literally...