My dilemma

[Newc]

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Uh, yeah. Sure guys.

[MBreinin]

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Mike - Thanks for speaking up for me bud. It's good to know that I'm safely lumped in with every guy that thinks with his pecker or is addicted to muff like a dog running down the street. [img]/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif[/img]

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Dude, I don't bone everything in sight, or chase pussy like a dog in heat. I have had several long term relationships. I have been married. I have two kids. However, I also realize what drives men. I embrace reality, and I don't live in some sort of delusional neutered state.

Every time I have been in a relationship I have thought of and looked at other women. We are programmed that way, period. We are men, we want to have sex with as many women as we can.

Mike

[Endrik]

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We are programmed that way, period. We are men, we want to have sex with as many women as we can.

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and who doesn't agree with that is a liar or gey PERIOD

[bonghits]

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We are men, we want to have sex with as many women as we can.

Mike

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[Mrs Tekky]

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And I hate to say it, if a guy I just know slightly just ramdomly tried to kiss me, even if I did like him, he'd probably get slapped! Treat her with respect!

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Oh, come on. They are young and obviously there is something between them. I didn't tell him to whip his Johnson out!!! [img]/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img] Where is the lack of respect in suggesting he try to kiss her when the time is right?

I am just trying to save him some misery, because I was more lame than he claims to be...but I learned.

Mike

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There's a difference between when the time is right and just telling him to kiss her!

[DarkSaga]

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Hey Dude,

Yeah, definately don't just move in for the kiss out of the fucking blue like these guys are sayin [img]/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img] [img]/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img] [img]/images/graemlins/poke.gif[/img]

I would definately go out for coffee with her or a group and get to know her and then just start asking her to do things just the the 2 of you like go on a hike or something outdoors where you can talk and be alone. Just be confident, funny, and yourself. Try to be a little forward after a while to get a sense if she is digging you. If she is or not you will be able to sense it when you spend time together and how you interact and that is when you will have the answer to your question. Or you can just go somewhere and be straight up with her and say I like you and how do you feel about me, but that might be a little awkward and too forward.
Just hang out a lot and be yourself. And just get the balls to start flirting/joking and eventual ask her straight up if she likes you. It is scary as hell.
My girlfriend and I were in Art class together before we met. We ended up doing a paper mache (sp?) project together and i would just joke around and was really confident about myself. Then one day i brought her a rose and asked her to a Hockey game (she refused because her Mom said NO which was True) then I asked her to the movies. We went and were joking around in the theater pushing eachothers arms off of the arm rest that both of us were sharing etc etc... then i asked her would she be my girlfriend next day in class and wemade out in class until the teacher stopped us... He was a cool Art teacher so no disciplinary actions were taken.

Moral of the story: Be yourself and get some balls [img]/images/graemlins/tongue.gif[/img] [img]/images/graemlins/tongue.gif[/img] [img]/images/graemlins/tongue.gif[/img]

[jjw]

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lol what a croc of shit

[Jason1212]

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I am with Matt on this. You are really speaking for yourself and not all of us. In my opinion and for what it's worth which I will admit in advance is not a lot, you are destined to live a lonely life unless you can put your urges in check.

[Newc]

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Every time I have been in a relationship I have thought of and looked at other women. We are programmed that way, period. We are men, we want to have sex with as many women as we can.

Mike

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Umm, and what council elected you to be the Voice Of All Men?

YOU may be programmed that way, and it may be in YOUR nature, but don't try to justify it by saying it's the nature of all human males.

[MBreinin]

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For the last fucking time..I didn't tell him to randomly try to plant one on her. I suggested he make a move when they are alone, and it feels right.

I am not a Cretin, despite the direction this post has taken. [img]/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img] [img]/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img]

Mike

[atomic charvel guy]

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Some people wouldn't know a good time if it sat on their face. Make her laugh and she's yours.

[Mrs Tekky]

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Kiss her? thats pretty ballsy, I don't know about that. If she isn't interested than I loose a friendship also.

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Dude, I am not trying to be harsh on you...but it is obvious that you dig this chick. So, don't be a pussy. If you don't get past this initial stage and either get shot down, or make her your girlfriend, you will end up one of these lovesick puppy dog friends of hers. Always wanting her, never having her.

I am telling you, man. I am almost 36 and I know what I am talking about here. I have BEEN THAT GUY.

Mike

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dude, Mike is totally right about this. trust me.

one other thing, guys don't have friends that are girls. they have girls they are dating (fucking) and girls that they may date or want to date but haven't hooked up with yet. only pussies have friends that are girls. sorry, but that's the truth here.

on the other side, girls say they want guy friends, but that is just so they have someone warming up in the bullpen in case their real choice of guy to date (fuck) bails or does not last.

you really need to listen to Tom Leykis (Leykis 101), he will tell you all you need to know.
streaming audio of his syndicated radio show on exactly this topic is here:
http://blowmeuptom.com/

don't continue to be a pussy. go for it, or go on to the next one.
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Ummm... yeah, not. I have some great guy friends that are just that, friends - no desire to go anywhere on either side. I know guys that have female friends that they would never even think of kissing, let alone sleep with her.

I hate to say it, but you sound very juvenile and probably have no luck at all with women. Of course, once you grow up you may find out how wrong you are. Not everybody wants to sleep with everyone else!

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You are woefully naive.

It is the 100% truth, in most circumstances. Most girls that guys are friends with are either girls they already slept with, but for some reason aren't sleeping with now...wanted to sleep with but ended up as friends, still want to sleep with and are holding out for that, or came with their current girlfriend...so they are tolerated, or they are lusted after.

This is really, honestly what men are like. I am not making this stuff up. Don't delude yourself.

Mike

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Actually, one of my best girlfriends was actually Todd's friend first - and neither of them wants to sleep with the other - in fact Todd has lot of female friends that he doesn't want to sleep with and they don't want to sleep with him. No every guys wants to sleep with all of his female friends and vice versa - for some of us that would be like sleeping with a sibling!

[MBreinin]

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Every time I have been in a relationship I have thought of and looked at other women. We are programmed that way, period. We are men, we want to have sex with as many women as we can.

Mike

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Umm, and what council elected you to be the Voice Of All Men?

YOU may be programmed that way, and it may be in YOUR nature, but don't try to justify it by saying it's the nature of all human males.

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Yes, you are correct. It is only the nature of human Males that wish to have sex with Human Females. All other human males, need not apply.

Mike

[Endrik]

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[Tekky]

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Actually, one of my best girlfriends was actually Todd's friend first - and neither of them wants to sleep with the other - in fact Todd has lot of female friends that he doesn't want to sleep with and they don't want to sleep with him. No every guys wants to sleep with all of his female friends and vice versa - for some of us that would be like sleeping with a sibling!

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Uhh, can you re-phrase that honey so I don't look so damn pathetic?

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