My dilemma

[Endrik]

Re: My dilemma

not that movie again

[jgcable]

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They don't make guys like they used to.
Ask her out bro. Jeez.. If she says no, move on. There are plenty of chickies out there.

[bonghits]

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They don't make guys like they used to.
Ask her out bro. Jeez.. If she says no, move on. There are plenty of chickies out there.

[/ QUOTE ]I agree. No need to waste your time. If she says yes then it's all good. If she says no then time to move on to greener pastures. I've never quite understood guys who wasted their time on chicks who aren't interested in them. And don't beg! That's utterly fucked up. If you had to then you are definitely no gonna get any poontang! [img]/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img]

[atomic charvel guy]

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She Gave Good Sunflower

I've been lost in the headlights
All night long
Said I've felt taller, yes I heard
The dealer's song
Say babe don't mark me absent
I only missed out by a fraction
Be the sun that bursts through my clouds
It's hard enough just living on this ground

Say don't pretend to me
I beg and I plead, your sunflower I need
Thought nothing would surprise me
I was wrong now I see
Come on baby and just do me if you please

This made me reminiscing
About the honey we made
I feel warm in your blizzard
And your flood I crave
I won't abuse my anger
I promise you no lecture
Come be the sun bursting through my clouds
It's hard enough just living on the ground

Say don't pretend to me
I beg and I plead, your sunflower I need
Thought nothing would surprise me
I was wrong now I see
Come on baby and just do me if you please

[jgcable]

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Also, if you do ask her out, don't say "would you like to go out with me or.. would you like to go out sometime".
Instead, ask her if she would like to hang out and maybe go to a movie or grab something to eat sometime. It rolls off of the tongue easier for those of us who have trouble talking to girls we like. I never had that problem. Most rock dudes have too many chickies. I had a girl at every port (gig location). Don't put to much effort into thinking about it. Just do it. After all... all you really want to do is bang her. All that she's nice crap is just that.. crap. The only girl you actually have to like is the one you are gonna marry and after you marry her you might feel differently anyway! GO FOR IT BRO. Don't be a wuss.

[bonghits]

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"After all...all you really want to do is bang her".
That's a good one there John! [img]/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img] I like your honesty.

[Drsracing]

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Just go up to her and lick the side of her face. Trust me it works

[bonghits]

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I'm sorry if this sounds lame but I feel this is the only way to feel better is to let it out.

I met this really cool girl in my env. bio class and she is amazing in every way. I'm not that much of a talker so I cannot really keep a conversation with her, sometimes I do, sometimes I don't. She seems to not talk much, but then she will if its something interesting I think. I have hung out with her a couple times with my friends, one time I asked her, the other time my friend asked her (shes a girl not a guy). I have also given her a ride to her house to be nice. I would of felt like a douche if I didn't since she had to wait to get her ride but I don't know if she really wanted a ride or she was just afraid to say no. Today we got to do a project together and it was awesome to be with her. I can't really tell if she is passive and afraid to say no when I ask her to hang out, or if she is interested. She usually stays home and doesn't go out that much since most of her friends are off to another college.

I really want to date her, but first I just want to hang out with her. I don't really know what to do though. I don't have much experience with this and it always seems doomed for me. This is the only girl I like and I'm sure thats going to shoot me in the foot when I find out that shes not interested in me because it seems like that always happens.

[/ QUOTE ]Since this thread has become long and highly debated, how about a pic of her so we can have an idea of what got you hot and bothered?! [img]/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img] BTW, did you ask her to hang yet?

[skorb]

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[Since this thread has become long and highly debated, how about a pic of her so we can have an idea of what got you hot and bothered?! [img]/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img]

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[img]/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img] oh man

[MBreinin]

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Bro, I see it in your demeanor. And you so much need to NOT do it. You are highly likely to fall in worship of he first halfway decent chicky that shows you some love. MEGA F-ing mistake.

Don't dive in deep on a chick that you meet too early in your life. You are young, and you'll do a lot of changing in your mid or so 20's and you need to experience life a bit. There are a lot of different type of chicks out there, and you need to check some out and get a grip on things before you get all willy nilly on one.

I am not saying be a male slut, but don't jump deep on the first chicky that you feel a thang with and I know it's easy to fal deep and hard. Just take it easy. Life is too long to get stuck with one you might find to be inadequate or ill-fitted in a year or three of you maturing. Relax, be persisitant and logical, and you'll make a good decision.

Don't take it too seriously just yet at this point in your life. Yeah, you get lonely, but, you'll get to know yourself and what YOU want. I got tied early and it fucked my life up big. 15 years later I'm still damaged and prolly will never be right.

Chill, and get right with the right one at the right time. It will happen. Have faith and optimism.

Word...

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Of all the advice given here, this is by far the best.

Read this, then read it again. And then, print it out and tape it to the bathroom mirror and read it every morning.

I have been down this road, you either heed this advice, or perhaps you learn a very painful and powerful life lesson.

Mike

[Drsracing]

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Best advice: go lick the side of her face [img]/images/graemlins/smile.gif[/img]

[jgcable]

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Bro, I see it in your demeanor. And you so much need to NOT do it. You are highly likely to fall in worship of he first halfway decent chicky that shows you some love. MEGA F-ing mistake.

Don't dive in deep on a chick that you meet too early in your life. You are young, and you'll do a lot of changing in your mid or so 20's and you need to experience life a bit. There are a lot of different type of chicks out there, and you need to check some out and get a grip on things before you get all willy nilly on one.

I am not saying be a male slut, but don't jump deep on the first chicky that you feel a thang with and I know it's easy to fal deep and hard. Just take it easy. Life is too long to get stuck with one you might find to be inadequate or ill-fitted in a year or three of you maturing. Relax, be persisitant and logical, and you'll make a good decision.

Don't take it too seriously just yet at this point in your life. Yeah, you get lonely, but, you'll get to know yourself and what YOU want. I got tied early and it fucked my life up big. 15 years later I'm still damaged and prolly will never be right.

Chill, and get right with the right one at the right time. It will happen. Have faith and optimism.

Word...

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Of all the advice given here, this is by far the best.

Read this, then read it again. And then, print it out and tape it to the bathroom mirror and read it every morning.

I have been down this road, you either heed this advice, or perhaps you learn a very painful and powerful life lesson.

Mike

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I agree with the above so what I did was translate it a little in case you don't want to read so much.

Dude.. (thats you).. if you lack the balls to ask a girl out I suggest you.. whack off, get something to eat and practice your guitar.
Feelings are what you have for your parents, your kids, your friggin dog and even your wife. Young single guys don't have feelings towards girls. They have impulses and desires that come from their little head.

[Shawn Lutz]

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damn everyones an expert on relationships and dating around here.

There many ways to go about it and only one way thats right for the both of you. Being direct could work or it could get you slapped. Asking her to get coffee and she accepts may mean she likes ya or that she really just wants some coffee [img]/images/graemlins/smile.gif[/img]

I personally would be staight forward and tell her that you like her more than just being friends. If she's not interested she'll let you know, its up to you to decide if you want to be just friends. It can be tough to be friends with women that you want to tap into but I don't agree with whoever said you can't be friends. I've been friends with women and never took it to another level.

There is no point in delaying it and being in agony wondering, just ask her...

[Drsracing]

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That's why the next time you see her just go up to her and lick her. It's an animale instinct(sp)

[Cleveland Metal]

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Bro, I see it in your demeanor. And you so much need to NOT do it. You are highly likely to fall in worship of he first halfway decent chicky that shows you some love. MEGA F-ing mistake.

Don't dive in deep on a chick that you meet too early in your life. You are young, and you'll do a lot of changing in your mid or so 20's and you need to experience life a bit. There are a lot of different type of chicks out there, and you need to check some out and get a grip on things before you get all willy nilly on one.

I am not saying be a male slut, but don't jump deep on the first chicky that you feel a thang with and I know it's easy to fal deep and hard. Just take it easy. Life is too long to get stuck with one you might find to be inadequate or ill-fitted in a year or three of you maturing. Relax, be persisitant and logical, and you'll make a good decision.

Don't take it too seriously just yet at this point in your life. Yeah, you get lonely, but, you'll get to know yourself and what YOU want. I got tied early and it fucked my life up big. 15 years later I'm still damaged and prolly will never be right.

Chill, and get right with the right one at the right time. It will happen. Have faith and optimism.

Word...

[/ QUOTE ]

Of all the advice given here, this is by far the best.

Read this, then read it again. And then, print it out and tape it to the bathroom mirror and read it every morning.

I have been down this road, you either heed this advice, or perhaps you learn a very painful and powerful life lesson.

Mike

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Thanks for the props man. I can really see this young man throwing his life down the tubes on the first chicky that throws him some (good?) tail, and I know it can F your life on the big end.

Yeah, there are happy ending for youngins doing that, well, so legend goes. But it sure isn't the general consensus tho.