Re: My dilemma
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Bro, I see it in your demeanor. And you so much need to NOT do it. You are highly likely to fall in worship of he first halfway decent chicky that shows you some love. MEGA F-ing mistake.
Don't dive in deep on a chick that you meet too early in your life. You are young, and you'll do a lot of changing in your mid or so 20's and you need to experience life a bit. There are a lot of different type of chicks out there, and you need to check some out and get a grip on things before you get all willy nilly on one.
I am not saying be a male slut, but don't jump deep on the first chicky that you feel a thang with and I know it's easy to fal deep and hard. Just take it easy. Life is too long to get stuck with one you might find to be inadequate or ill-fitted in a year or three of you maturing. Relax, be persisitant and logical, and you'll make a good decision.
Don't take it too seriously just yet at this point in your life. Yeah, you get lonely, but, you'll get to know yourself and what YOU want. I got tied early and it fucked my life up big. 15 years later I'm still damaged and prolly will never be right.
Chill, and get right with the right one at the right time. It will happen. Have faith and optimism.
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Of all the advice given here, this is by far the best.
Read this, then read it again. And then, print it out and tape it to the bathroom mirror and read it every morning.
I have been down this road, you either heed this advice, or perhaps you learn a very painful and powerful life lesson.
Mike
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Thanks for the props man. I can really see this young man throwing his life down the tubes on the first chicky that throws him some (good?) tail, and I know it can F your life on the big end.
Yeah, there are happy ending for youngins doing that, well, so legend goes. But it sure isn't the general consensus tho.
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I'll give you an Amen..and then a Hallelujah.
I've been here, and I bear the scars as well.
Mike
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Bro, I see it in your demeanor. And you so much need to NOT do it. You are highly likely to fall in worship of he first halfway decent chicky that shows you some love. MEGA F-ing mistake.
Don't dive in deep on a chick that you meet too early in your life. You are young, and you'll do a lot of changing in your mid or so 20's and you need to experience life a bit. There are a lot of different type of chicks out there, and you need to check some out and get a grip on things before you get all willy nilly on one.
I am not saying be a male slut, but don't jump deep on the first chicky that you feel a thang with and I know it's easy to fal deep and hard. Just take it easy. Life is too long to get stuck with one you might find to be inadequate or ill-fitted in a year or three of you maturing. Relax, be persisitant and logical, and you'll make a good decision.
Don't take it too seriously just yet at this point in your life. Yeah, you get lonely, but, you'll get to know yourself and what YOU want. I got tied early and it fucked my life up big. 15 years later I'm still damaged and prolly will never be right.
Chill, and get right with the right one at the right time. It will happen. Have faith and optimism.
Word...
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Of all the advice given here, this is by far the best.
Read this, then read it again. And then, print it out and tape it to the bathroom mirror and read it every morning.
I have been down this road, you either heed this advice, or perhaps you learn a very painful and powerful life lesson.
Mike
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Thanks for the props man. I can really see this young man throwing his life down the tubes on the first chicky that throws him some (good?) tail, and I know it can F your life on the big end.
Yeah, there are happy ending for youngins doing that, well, so legend goes. But it sure isn't the general consensus tho.
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I'll give you an Amen..and then a Hallelujah.
I've been here, and I bear the scars as well.
Mike
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