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    Bro, I see it in your demeanor. And you so much need to NOT do it. You are highly likely to fall in worship of he first halfway decent chicky that shows you some love. MEGA F-ing mistake.

    Don't dive in deep on a chick that you meet too early in your life. You are young, and you'll do a lot of changing in your mid or so 20's and you need to experience life a bit. There are a lot of different type of chicks out there, and you need to check some out and get a grip on things before you get all willy nilly on one.

    I am not saying be a male slut, but don't jump deep on the first chicky that you feel a thang with and I know it's easy to fal deep and hard. Just take it easy. Life is too long to get stuck with one you might find to be inadequate or ill-fitted in a year or three of you maturing. Relax, be persisitant and logical, and you'll make a good decision.

    Don't take it too seriously just yet at this point in your life. Yeah, you get lonely, but, you'll get to know yourself and what YOU want. I got tied early and it fucked my life up big. 15 years later I'm still damaged and prolly will never be right.

    Chill, and get right with the right one at the right time. It will happen. Have faith and optimism.

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    Of all the advice given here, this is by far the best.

    Read this, then read it again. And then, print it out and tape it to the bathroom mirror and read it every morning.

    I have been down this road, you either heed this advice, or perhaps you learn a very painful and powerful life lesson.

    Mike

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    Thanks for the props man. I can really see this young man throwing his life down the tubes on the first chicky that throws him some (good?) tail, and I know it can F your life on the big end.

    Yeah, there are happy ending for youngins doing that, well, so legend goes. But it sure isn't the general consensus tho.

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    I'll give you an Amen..and then a Hallelujah.

    I've been here, and I bear the scars as well.

    Mike
    Sleep. The sound doesn't collapse to riffs of early eyes either.

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      If anything is going to turn me gay it's this thread. Well, at least, a confirmed bachelor. I'm too old for this shit. [img]/images/graemlins/smile.gif[/img]
      I am a true ass set to this board.

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        Nothing worse than an old gay guy...


        Fett, quit being gay. Told ya twice man...

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          Stop changing lipstick Fett, we're getting rainbow dick-lol
          sorry , lost my head.
          Not helping the situation since 1965!

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            I am a "Baby Bummer". I had my shot at a lasting marriage. But she died. I have a 23 year old son. I would like nothing more than to have a delemna. All I can say, is don't treat women like trophies that have been bagged. They start out more mature then we boys and they stay that way. Be cool; respectful; patient and understanding. If she doesn't understand that, exit stage, right. "Wagging the flag is nothing more than wasting your precious bodily fluids." And I can't use lipstick because it gets into me beard and 'stashe.
            I am a true ass set to this board.

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              Keyword in any relationship is respect ..

              No not all guys are consistently looking to bag every chick they meet. This is something you learn with age. Hormones at a young age do amazing things to a young mans mind and sexual drives.

              Throw out every piece of advice in this thread and read what the women are telling you because they are truly the ones that know. You can get advice from any guy on the planet that will be skewed based upon their experience,libedo and maturity ..but at the end of the day who knows what a woman wants better than a woman ..

              Em and Mrs Tekky are 2 valuable sources of information in what answers you seek ..private message them and let them guide you dude ..this way you keep your privacy and the machi guys on the site won't make ya feel like shit for it ...

              WTF do I know though ... I'm 40 and been with my wife since I was 17 ..... and yes I dated quite a bit b4 her ..
              Don't worry - I'll smack her if it comes to that. You do not sell guitars to buy shoes. You skimp on food to buy shoes! ~Mrs Tekky 06-03-08~

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                Keyword in any relationship is respect ..

                No not all guys are consistently looking to bag every chick they meet. This is something you learn with age. Hormones at a young age do amazing things to a young mans mind and sexual drives.

                Throw out every piece of advice in this thread and read what the women are telling you because they are truly the ones that know. You can get advice from any guy on the planet that will be skewed based upon their experience,libedo and maturity ..but at the end of the day who knows what a woman wants better than a woman ..

                Em and Mrs Tekky are 2 valuable sources of information in what answers you seek ..private message them and let them guide you dude ..this way you keep your privacy and the machi guys on the site won't make ya feel like shit for it ...

                WTF do I know though ... I'm 40 and been with my wife since I was 17 ..... and yes I dated quite a bit b4 her ..

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                I'll tell you what that means... You aren't qualified to respond and I mean that in a good way. [img]/images/graemlins/toast.gif[/img]
                I lived the rock and roll/metal lifestyle from 15 until 26 and I was single the majority of the time. I.. my friend... am qualified to respond to complex issues such as these.
                Guys that married their high school sweetheart need to stay out of these dilemma's because you guys haven't a clue. [img]/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]

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                  I have to say that high school for me was just one big orgy! Man we had some nice looking sluts and once you've been with one the rest wanted to ride the sausage mobile as well! [img]/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img] I definitely changed my high school's name from Orange High School(Panthers) to Orgy High Panties! [img]/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img] What an education I got over there. OC, California will always have a place between my legs! [img]/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img]
                  "The BLUES is the tonic for what ails ya."

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                    I have a question: Would you like to spend the rest of your life with a girl that thinks "bagging" a rocker is cool? The "clue" is that in a "feel free' atmosphere, those chicks are nothing you would want to introduce to your parents. I have faith that you "free spirits" will grow up and learn that there are women out there with class. [img]/images/graemlins/headbang.gif[/img] [img]/images/graemlins/headbang.gif[/img]
                    I am a true ass set to this board.

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                      I have a question: Would you like to spend the rest of your life with a girl that thinks "bagging" a rocker is cool? The "clue" is that in a "feel free' atmosphere, those chicks are nothing you would want to introduce to your parents. I have faith that you "free spirits" will grow up and learn that there are women out there with class. [img]/images/graemlins/headbang.gif[/img] [img]/images/graemlins/headbang.gif[/img]

                      [/ QUOTE ]This coming from a guy who thinks he's gay?! [img]/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img] Just kidding Fett! [img]/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img] No harm intended.
                      "The BLUES is the tonic for what ails ya."

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                        I have a question: Would you like to spend the rest of your life with a girl that thinks "bagging" a rocker is cool? The "clue" is that in a "feel free' atmosphere, those chicks are nothing you would want to introduce to your parents. I have faith that you "free spirits" will grow up and learn that there are women out there with class. [img]/images/graemlins/headbang.gif[/img] [img]/images/graemlins/headbang.gif[/img]

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                        The ones with class, you marry.

                        The others, well...you FUCK them.

                        I wonder where Ace is in this discussion...that dude should have his dick bronzed.

                        Mike
                        Sleep. The sound doesn't collapse to riffs of early eyes either.

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                          I am not Gay. I just am so pissed off that I spent the '60's in the burbs across the Bay while the "Summer of Love" was a "Bridge Too Far". [img]/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img] [img]/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img] [img]/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img]
                          I am a true ass set to this board.

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                          • Re: My dilemma

                            Lick her face
                            I've fallen, Fallen through. If I'm Not With you, All I wanna Do Is Feel blue

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                              How can you fight that logic? [img]/images/graemlins/notworthy.gif[/img] [img]/images/graemlins/notworthy.gif[/img] That sounds like something our Prez would say. [img]/images/graemlins/smile.gif[/img]
                              I am a true ass set to this board.

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                                I have a question: Would you like to spend the rest of your life with a girl that thinks "bagging" a rocker is cool? The "clue" is that in a "feel free' atmosphere, those chicks are nothing you would want to introduce to your parents. I have faith that you "free spirits" will grow up and learn that there are women out there with class. [img]/images/graemlins/headbang.gif[/img] [img]/images/graemlins/headbang.gif[/img]

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                                The ones with class, you marry.

                                The others, well...you FUCK them.

                                I wonder where Ace is in this discussion...that dude should have his dick bronzed.

                                Mike

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                                Your statement is not quite correct. It goes like this:

                                The ones with class, you take to dinner and then you fuck them.

                                The others, well...you just FUCK them.

                                Now boys and girls... take my jaded advice with a grain of salt. I am talking about the gigging metal guitarist lifestyle. Not the typical shlub who tries to meet girls through friends or whatever. I am talking about groupies.
                                I'm 44 married with 3 kids and I can still score at will when we are gigging. I don't because I love my wife and my life and with a bagged and confirmed total of 224 before I got married I have had my fill. Oh yea.. yes, many of the 224 girls only used me because I was in a really popular band. Girls are so shallow. [img]/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img]

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