Need some vibes guys

[GodOfRhythm]

Hey guys,

Never thought I'd do this on an internet message board, I've got a close group of friends that I can spill my guts to and rely on, but let's just say I need some additional venting to do....

Things are not going well here. I already had trouble keeping my shit together at college, I had really good grades, but somehow I already feel burned out. I'm getting pissed off more and more from seeing and meeting people with two faces and altogether an entire shitty attitude over them...

But it's safe to say that's all minimal shit compared to what happened to me this weekend. You might think I'm a young snotnosed brat, but goddamn I know what I feel and this was serious. The girl, I saw myself sharing the rest of my life with, who'd make my day just by walking into the room, just ripped my fucking heart out, poured some tabasco over it and gave it to some dancing mexicans to eat. Worst of all she didn't even have the guts to tell it to me in my face, so I got a textmessage explaining me how she didn't see this going anywhere and how she's had another guy in her head for some time now.

Well yay diddilly FUCKTART, thanks for letting me know!


Just send some vibes my way guys, good or bad, right now, quite frankly, I don't give a flying fuck.

Ok done with acting like a whiney, pissy SOB.

I'll see you guys in the future somewhere, I guess, but right now I'm going to find my coyote and do some major desert-heart soulsearching.

Adios

[Baum83]

Damn whore. You've got my sympathies, man... don't let it get to you more than necessary. I'll raise one or ten for you tonight.

[StukaJU87]

I feel for ya, Man. You are a young buck bro. Chalk it up to life experience and learn from it. My old man used to say, "There are plenty of fish in the sea." At your age you should be out there playing the field. Put school first on your priority list and poontang 2nd.

[jgcable]

Here is it straight from the heart bro. Any dude... ANY DUDE... complaining, whining or crying about a chick who broke his heart gets NO sympathy from me. Go hunt for another girl. There are plenty of them out there. Jeez...

Let me translate what your ex meant when she said she had another guy in her head for some time.

She meant that she was giving another guy head for some time now.
You have basically been treated to sloppy seconds... or maybe even thirds.
You sound like a young guy. The world is your oyster. Girls are a dime a dozen. Really good ones aren't but thats not what you should be after at this time. After all, this last girlfriend was nothing more than most likely a two timing slut.
Go out and put some notches on your belt. When you have had your fill you can start looking for a steady or a permanent. Maybe one will come along sooner than later. The trick is not to go into a relationship with any girl with the expectations of a steady or potential long term relationship (or wife). Just have fun and keep it casual.

[dinkyjacksonman]

Ward, sorry to hear this.
Now stop listening to Dream Theater and go out and meet some chicks at festivals coming this summer.
Man seriously, you are still young and there are way many chicks to bang with.
Good luck.

[atomic charvel guy]

Don't let it keep you down GOR, everyone here has had their heart broken. It is a terrible feeling, come on out to Black Crowes Beach, I can help you cure the heartache real easily. Broken hearts are rough when it is truly broken, but listen to the Frank Zappa song "Broken Hearts are for Assholes" as it helped me out when mine was shattered. At least it's a girl who broke your heart and not a friend or family dying that did it. Those broken hearts are the worst in my opinion. PM me, I'mm make an itinerary on how to soothe your ailing heart. Sorry man.


Tommy

[toejam]

I'll just quote that kid from the John Cusack movie Say Anything. "Bitches, man!"

[nateb]

It is hard keeping you head in school. I had a hard time with that due to the fact that I couldn't ever see the end. The only way that I could make it through was having a list of the classes that I needed to graduate on the wall. Every quarter, I got to mark off the ones left. The visual proof of that list getting shorter was enough to keep me focused.

Oh yeah... Thank god she showed the extent of her twatness early on rather then later down the road. Have some beer, some stunt sex, and forgettaboutit. There will be another.

-Nate

[KingV1]

I had the same thing happen to me in college. My girlfriend of 3 years dumped me without any warning. Just called up and said she never wanted to see me again. Didn't want to discuss it or give an explaination. It blew me away. I began drinking excessively and dropped most of my classes that semester and ended up not going the next semester. All I have to say is that I wish I could go back in time and not let it effect me the way it did because my life turned out so much better in the end. Now I have a beautiful wife and two great kids. I saw my ex-girlfriend a few years after she dumped me and she had gained a bunch of weight. It was great. SO PLEASE LISTEN TO THESE WORDS... FORGET ABOUT HER AND JUST PUT ALL OF YOUR EMOTIONS INTO SCHOOL AND PLAYING GUITAR. It always works out in the end.

[zeegler]

You know what GOR, it seems like you already have a good perspective on it. Most of us, especially we older JCFers, have experienced exactly the same thing at one time or another in our lives. Jesus, there are at least 3 such episodes in my past. All you can do is try not to dwell on it. Keep yourself busy, that way you won't be inclined to sit and stew over it. If you are going to think about it, then be angry. Anger motivates where depression just makes you wallow in your own misery. Play some angry guitar.

Oh yeah, and go fuck some sluts!!!

[Fragle]

+1 on what the other guys said. at your age (or mine for that matter ) you should not get too attached to *any* girl, let alone get married. geez, what's up with all the young guys nowadays trying to get married asap?!
"Thank god she showed the extent of her twatness early on rather then later down the road"
word

[horns666]

Could be worse..you could have married that peach and made a couple of love trophies with her..now would that be better?...NOT!!

So, accept the pain you have right now and be thankful you didn't invest any more time, love, money and energy into such crap...you need to move on..

You're LUCKY to have discovered she's an filthy asshole NOW ..instead of when she's your wife ..

So congrats and good riddance!

[jgcable]

The only head you should be listening to when you are a young single guy is your little head.

[Guitarnut]

Don't do what I did & hit the booze & stop doing anything except feeling sorry for myself - could've got started playing guitar properly with all the free time! Couple of months later, I found a lady who's perfect for me (and actively supports my playing & GAS!). It'll happen for you too, even if you think it won't at the moment. As far as I'm concerned, the girls who fucked me over - screw 'em. It's their loss. Cliches are sometimes right - plenty more fish in the sea, my friend.

[Guitarnut]

+1 on what Horns666 says! (He posted while I was writing - wise words).