Need some vibes guys

[RobRR]

Been there, done that, got the t-shirt that says so.

Im gonna tell ya, the ONLY thing thats gonna help the hurt is time. Nothing else. Have friends close all the time, go do the things you enjoy, DO NOT AVOID PLACES THAT REMIND YOU OF HER. Why do I say that? Simple... because if you avoid going places because of memories, once the hurt goes away, and you think its ok to go to those places, youll realize how much it hurt all over again.

Basically, just keep going with your life, DONT STOP DOING THINGS YOU LIKE . If you can find another chick, great... if not, stay single for a while and ENJOY LIFE. Take up new things, rehash old things. Just have fun, and always remember that this was nothing but a learning experience.

Take care bro!

[jackson1]

Talk to your best friend. Let him/her in on it and show you need support. Talk. Write.

Don't go fuck every hooker you can find. What's up with that stupid advice? Healing the broken heart by fucking left and right... i never understood that.

Don't carry a hate for her all your life either. That is so WEAK. There's no point. Be strong and believe in yourself. She ended it yeah, but that doesn't make her an idiot. It doesn't make YOU an idiot either. Couples split for reasons. Suck it up and stay busy. She's gone. Don't carry the hate!

And call your friend. Visit your friend. Hang out with your friend. Again. And tomorrow too.

[jgcable]

Could be worse..you could have married that peach and made a couple of love trophies with her..now would that be better?...NOT!!

So, accept the pain you have right now and be thankful you didn't invest any more time, love, money and energy into such crap...you need to move on..

You're LUCKY to have discovered she's an filthy asshole NOW ..instead of when she's your wife ..

So congrats and good riddance!

Bill, there is another thing to consider.
Instead of feeling sorry about losing a girlfriend or finding out that she has been "thinking" aka... fucking... another guy there is another REALLY SORRY thing to consider I bet.
The REAL TRAVESTY in this story is thinking back at all the nasty things he wanted to do to her but didn't because she was his steady girlfriend.
Thats the sad part because now its too late.

[len]

Don't go fuck every hooker you can find. What's up with that stupid advice? Healing the broken heart by fucking left and right... i never understood that.

i agree to disagree

the absolute best way to get over somebody is to get under somebody....

[horns666]

It seems bad now..but this happened for a GOOD reason!!

Don't miss other possiblities with good women while hanging onto uselless thoughts of second guessing, pain and loss..cut that shit out NOW!!

Don't be in a clouded funk..girls sense that kind of energy...don't let your ex be a psychic vampire..

Remeber..you can't make anything happen..all you can do is LET things happen..if it's meant to be...it's meant to be.

You can NOT control or change others..they will do whatever they want to do..even if it's bad for them.

The only thing you can control and change is your own mindet..not others.

Like that old saying.."you can't make a silk purse out of a sow's ear"..well it's true!!

Good luck man!!

Bill

[lerxstcat]

Consider this: These things don't come out of the blue. So if she gave you no warning, she was deceiving you for a certain amount of time. You don't need a deceitful girlfriend as your partner in life. Chances are she was cheating on you and doesn't want to reveal that.

Forget your dreams of reconciliation. Even if it happens, it's tainted and won't last. Move on, prioritize your studies. Go out drinking with your friends and don't give a rat's ass about getting another girl. The best situations occur when you're not looking anyway.

It always hurts the most the first time, but you will recover from this and be stronger for it. And this is also why, when a chick complains about you paying attention to your guitar, you say you can trust your guitar! You want a girl that loves the glow you get from playing your guitar, not some chick that's jealous of your other love.

It will be okay, man - far better than okay, hang in there!

[horns666]

well new pussy diverts attention to well..new pussy..and not to your "loss"..

Loss..??

all you lost was a hemroid..

[IrfaanSE801]

Dude, I disconnected myself from a lot of those "two faced" friends and have been MUCH better off. With the school stuff, all I can say is hang in there. I almost burned out, and took a semester off, and felt a lot better about things. With that other chick, everyone here gave some great advice, and I've got nothing constructive to add to that. I'm going through my own BS too right now, so good luck to ya, and ya have good thoughts from everyone here, so hang in there

[Jack The Riffer]

Go bang her best friend in the ass.

[pro-fusion]

She's somebody else's headache now. You sound like the prototypical "nice guy"--I guaran-damn-tee you that she will be back begging for your forgiveness in a month or so. Whatever you do, do NOT let her worm her way back into your life. It will be tempting, trust me, but you need to move on.

As several others have said, at least you didn't marry her!!!

[horns666]

"Go bang her best friend in the ass."

Sounds GREAT in print..but not feasable in the real world..

why?

A scorned woman will retaliate in one or two ways..since they can't personally beat your ass..

One.. she will bang a gorilla to beat you ass..

OR..

Two..Scratch herself up, call the police and said that you did it..

Hmmmmmmm..I wonder how I know these things..

I seen many of these cases first hand..I had to make ALOT of lame reports in c/w this same exact thing..

Hit the books, get over this crap and go find a nice girl..

[Fragle]

Go bang her best friend in the ass.

now THAT's some great advice :ROTF: right on, man, right on

edit: bill, whoa...wtf is up with the girls over there.....esp. that scratching thing. that's some great stuff for a psycho movie

[horns666]

Most girls can't beat your ass ..so out of anger and or frustration they..

A ..have someone else do it..

Or

B...let the police do it, even if their story is unfounded..

happens all the time..been there, done that, have the 1000 T shirts to proove it!

all your going to do is be the making of a Jerry Springer episode...you could be part of that episode..or bail and move on..and find a nice girl..

yeah, that's a great idea..go find a nice girl..