futile relationship?

[guitarsjb]

skorb...sorry beg to differ w/ you bro..first of all I am a woman...I gave him that advice because NO ONE should put up with that from ANY ONE...doesn't matter, male, female, black, white, whatever..respect is respect. I personally do not like being treated like crap...so don't speak for me. If you treat me like crap I can guarantee you there will be hell to pay. Simple. Treat people like you want to be treated. For you to say some bullshit thing like is just that..bullshit. Keep your gender opinions to yourself. Please. And I can see you must get laid a lot because you are very much in touch with your inner asshole....

[zeegler]

skorb...sorry beg to differ w/ you bro..first of all I am a woman...I gave him that advice because NO ONE should put up with that from ANY ONE...doesn't matter, male, female, black, white, whatever..respect is respect. I personally do not like being treated like crap...so don't speak for me. If you treat me like crap I can guarantee you there will be hell to pay. Simple. Treat people like you want to be treated. For you to say some bullshit thing like is just that..bullshit. Keep your gender opinions to yourself. Please. And I can see you must get laid a lot because you are very much in touch with your inner asshole....

Yes, but Jeri, you're not like a regular girl. You're actually cool.

[toejam]

Jeri rules!!!!

[PallarAndersVisa]

I dated a girl for 4 and a half years and I know how you feel. You dont feel like you couldnt live without her but you are never happy when you are with her. Its a shitty feeling but the best thing to do is let go if you cant see the relationship getting any better

but first you should have a serious talk with her and tell her that you're thinking of ending it because of what she is saying. If she still acts the same way, then theres really no need to be in the relationship. Its going to take a ton of time to get over, especially if you are close with her family, As I was with my ex's. Its been months and months since we broke up and Im still heartbroken.

lesson of your lifetime - women are cunts

[St.James]

i have been seeing a certain girl for over 4 years. the more i see her, the more of a bitch she is. but rather than give her a piece of my mind (she's a two-faced hypocrite), i just take all the verbal shit. why? i always feel the relationship is hanging by a thread and i'm too frightened that i'll lose her. so is it right to take shit to get what you want?

Dude, if she's still coming off with the panties and doing the nasty with ya, fuck it, just ride the poontang out until it's gone...But be looking for some new stuff while you're riding that wave on out.

When chicks start acting like bitches like that they're usually looking for a way out anyway.

If she's a two-faced hypocrite, why would you even want that in the first place?

guitarsjb is right on the money! Besides who better to give advice about women, than a woman?

[toejam]

Heh. Who wants to guess which board member is now on vacation for a few days?

[RacerX]

Could be lots of folks...lotta assholes showed up in this thread!

[St.James]

Heh. Who wants to guess which board member is now on vacation for a few days?

Who, what, when, why, where?

[skorb]

skorb...sorry beg to differ w/ you bro..first of all I am a woman...I gave him that advice because NO ONE should put up with that from ANY ONE...doesn't matter, male, female, black, white, whatever..respect is respect. I personally do not like being treated like crap...so don't speak for me. If you treat me like crap I can guarantee you there will be hell to pay. Simple. Treat people like you want to be treated. For you to say some bullshit thing like is just that..bullshit. Keep your gender opinions to yourself. Please. And I can see you must get laid a lot because you are very much in touch with your inner asshole....

hi there
this has nothing to do with you.
I was giving him advice, not you.
I will air my opinions here just like everyone else.
I'm glad to hear you are not the norm.
there are exceptions to every rule.
but a majority of girls behave exactly like I said.
and women are the worst ones for men to listen to regarding advice about how to deal with relationships. what's good for the woman is usually not good for the man. sorry if you don't see this, but you wouldn't. you're a woman.

[toejam]

Could be lots of folks...lotta assholes showed up in this thread!

Yeah, but only one used the C word.

[thetroy]

I thought there were no language rules on the JCF?

(just want to be clear so I don't get myself in trouble in the future)

[atomic charvel guy]

Jeri,
I have to go with Skorb on this one, I'm not saying that every single one wants to be treated like dishwater, but she's right, they are out there, especially out here, and an ex of mine used to flip her medusa -like head when I would not emgage in battle with her. I found out the dude before me used to hit her and they would fight like psychopaths all the time over the smallest bullshit. I truly believe if I ever took a swing at her , she may have been lovey dovey all the time.
You can't look for the perfect girl or guy, you have to look for the person that is just as fucked up as you are, and in my case, nobody has come remotely close.

[sully]

here's a simple one to remember....if you have to ask if you should be in that situation, you shouldn't.

now move on.

[wilkinsi]

i think the best thing is to act like i don't care anymore, and if the shit continues, i'll just leave. it will hurt a great deal and for a long time. but she can't say i didn't try to make her happy.

[len]

i know why ya put up with it... i've been with her clone for 18 years ...
it's the "a bush in hand beats a hand with no bush" mentality and i am guilty