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Ward is right, but I'll take it a step further. You either are an alpha-male or you aren't. Sure, you can pretend you have plenty of other options and aren't going to kiss her ass, but there's no substitute for actually having plenty of other options & knowing it. I'll say it again, you don't have to be cruel or an asshole. You have to have self-respect and be a man. Play games all you want, but any woman worth a damn can tell what you're made of.
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I'm as guilty as all the rest. It's fun using all these nasty words. The fact is we are not in the "Men's Locker Room". This forum is open to people that have an interest in guitars. And based on my little poll, there are a lot of very married people on this forum that might take offense at calling women names. Not to mention our members of the female persuasion. I feel better now.I am a true ass set to this board.
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Originally posted by RacerXAh, you just wanted to show your goofy little avatar!I am a true ass set to this board.
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My (most likely to be soon ex) wife just told me the other day, "maybe if you ignored me it would make me want you more"... I rest my case..and side with the others here that think that women love assholes/jerks. I've kissed ass 10 years twice and I'm now ending my second marriage. As for me, no more Mr. fukkin nice guy. For all of you in a happy relationship, more power to ya. As for me, this ice covered hole where my heart used to be is closed for good.Last edited by Flametop; 07-02-2006, 11:53 PM.The Buzzard does not fear
The man in riot gear
Harvest a skull of stone
The Buzzard grows his own...
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*shakes head*
that destroys me to hear, flametop. how the fuck things got to where women like and are attracted by some of the things i heard in this thread completely floor me.
i'm sorry to hear that dude, damn.
unreal.Last edited by Seventh Avenged; 07-03-2006, 12:15 AM.
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Hmmm..interesting stuff here..
Kev, takin' care of Biz..yeah, sometimes that crap happends..then we must deal with it. I hope everythintg remains civil and that asshole hits the bricks for good...if not ..he go to jail...fuggum!
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well, no reason for me to state the obvious. You can't fit a square peg in a round hole..people are who they are. Either you gel or you don't. She won't change and neither will you..you are who you are..things happen for a reason at times..
she may be a "bitch" because she has her own agenda that you are not even aware of..and that agenda may be that peg that fits really nice..at least for the moment.
If you loose respect from your partner, you WILL loose that partner. You can't make them repsect you, not even thru fear..that will just get you trouble and even more drama...
Find a mate that will make you a better man, not a better sucker!
I'm very lucky..and well a little wise from being drug thru the ringer before by this same ilk..my old girlfreind gave me crabs and I watched her get poked by some dickweed she worked with..right across the street from my house..in a Chevette..a rusty Chevette..I had binoculars..boy that was a special moment:ROTF:
I'm GLAD that happended...because!!!!!!
I met my killer wife in 1984..I didn't have a Chevette..a few years later I bought a Corvette..and my Ex saw both of us..and I must say..that too was a VERY special momnet
My wife is awesome, she understands, supports and nutures my every need for almost 20 years..and that's an aweful lot..you'd know after one day of living with me...we have nothing but the upmost repesct for each other..that is one thing that helped me never stray..and man, I had some tempting offers thru those 20 years..my wife's much too good of a person to even consider taking that risk...and she's still cute as ever!!!!
I told my wife not unless Denise Richards or Angelina Joli comes over here and grabs me by the horn, and buys me a Diablo..she doesn't have a worry in the world!
She KNOWS that!
Jeri, I got to know you dear metal sister..I can tell you, that you are the exception to the rule..you are all woman BUT you are so damn down to earth..you're just like one of the boys..and I say that as a compliment..I feel VERY comfortable, I can be myself whenever I talk to you..just like my wife...and that is so fuggin' cool!
That's a good thing..you should be able to just be yourself without any drama and shit..that's what I think!!!
I avoid the serious, "sensitive" types..even here..and in life..I'm NOT serious nor sensitive..only when I need to be...like taking care of biz at home..just like Kev did.
I'm the type of guy that is somewhat laid back and standoff-ish to most..until I get to know someone..then I'm a silly Mo Fo..or I can be the devil himself..many people has seen both sides of my coin..and I do them both quite well..So, it really doesn't matter to me..
Hell will freeze over the day I beg someone to "like" me.."Bill, Smoke a Bowl and Crank Van Halen I, Life is better when I do that"
Donnie Swanstrom 01/25/06..miss ya!
"Well, your friend would have Bell's Palsy, which is a facial paralysis, not "Balls Pelsy" like we're joking about here." Toejam's attempt at sensitivity.
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Flame, That's too bad..
But, there will be a special person..somewhere down the road that will eventually melt that ice..you'll just be much wiser going in..and cautious..
This is true ..I know..been there!
I know you are bitter now, that's natural..hell everyone I know who went thru the divorce thing..oh man, that's a very trying and eye opening ordeal..well most of my freinds went thru that shit.
Most of them bounced back and are happier than ever..especially my one drummer freind Scott..he moved to Tampa and struck gold there..BIG TIME!
His new woman bought him a brand new Corvette for his birthday because he had to sell his cherry '62 Vette to pay off the divorce..that's nothing to her...she's worth 4.5 Mill.
and his Ex..well she went totally mental...I mean REALLY mental and she's still very single and lonely!!!
She wanted the divorce because some wall street wannabe lookin' dude blew the right smoke up her ass..she asked for the divorce..played house with MR Wall Street and he kicked her to the curb in a couple of months..so there ya go.Last edited by horns666; 07-03-2006, 04:42 AM."Bill, Smoke a Bowl and Crank Van Halen I, Life is better when I do that"
Donnie Swanstrom 01/25/06..miss ya!
"Well, your friend would have Bell's Palsy, which is a facial paralysis, not "Balls Pelsy" like we're joking about here." Toejam's attempt at sensitivity.
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Thanks Bill. As I said, I've been through this before, but it doesn't make it any easier. I just keep focused on my kids and try and keep my shit together. I'm currently getting professional help to get me by and hopefully make me a better person when I reach the other side of this storm.The Buzzard does not fear
The man in riot gear
Harvest a skull of stone
The Buzzard grows his own...
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Originally posted by wilkinsiit ends wednesday. i'm at work and don't have the time or willing to even make the time for her.
But let me remind you..nothing changes..
As soon as the make up sex is over..she'll show here fangs again..and again..
Let it go, Move on..4 years is enough with the fangs..it'll only get worse with time..trust me.
you'll be bitter for a while, that's normal..but you'll hook up with someone soon and that will take your mind off the Succubus...
As soon as you find yourself a even nicer person (you will)..you'll look back and ask yourself..what the F was I thinking!!Last edited by horns666; 07-03-2006, 12:03 PM."Bill, Smoke a Bowl and Crank Van Halen I, Life is better when I do that"
Donnie Swanstrom 01/25/06..miss ya!
"Well, your friend would have Bell's Palsy, which is a facial paralysis, not "Balls Pelsy" like we're joking about here." Toejam's attempt at sensitivity.
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Originally posted by FlametopMy (most likely to be soon ex) wife just told me the other day, "maybe if you ignored me it would make me want you more"... I rest my case..and side with the others here that think that women love assholes/jerks. I've kissed ass 10 years twice and I'm now ending my second marriage. As for me, no more Mr. fukkin nice guy. For all of you in a happy relationship, more power to ya. As for me, this ice covered hole where my heart used to be is closed for good.
Our relationship isn't the greatest either...it's not doomed to end at this point, but there's kinks we need to work out and just try to keep a little family spirit alive. That's all either of us want out of this.
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Originally posted by horns666I watched her get poked by some dickweed she worked with..right across the street from my house..in a Chevette..a rusty Chevette..
BTW, just let me add my voice to the chorus of those advising wilkinsi to just move on. Life's too short to spend it being miserable when you have alternatives. I'm lucky I met my wife--we don't always see eye-to-eye on everything, but we love and respect each other and there aren't any bullshit games or anything.Last edited by pro-fusion; 07-03-2006, 01:03 PM.
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