Loosing someone..

[heartfielder]

Sorry to hear of your loss my friend. Just know that we're here for you if you need some support. Try to enjoy the Holiday Season and celebrate your Aunt's life instead of mourning her passing.

[MortenP]

You know what...I love you guys - and I promised myself NEVER to say that on a webboard!!

Thank you, please use the holidays to take care of those that are close to you, even if you haven't talked to them or seen them in a while...Reach out for once..

Thank you for the support guys...I wish you all a merry christmas, or whatever way you celebrate this time of year..I really like being a part of JCF..

Rock on!! AND WHISKEY FOR ALL!!

[Special-K]

I`m sorry for you and yes I know how it feels...
I`ve been on the funeral of my best friend...
Anja...she did suicide...and she was my only friend I had...
I just wanted to die... I was numb for almost a whole year...

Then 2 year later ma granddad died that was also a terrible lost,
cause he meant much to me...

So Anja and Grandpa I love you...Rest In Peace, where ever you may be...
In my heart I`m with you

[Joe_Steeler]

I am sorry to hear about your loss. What you are doing is part of the process and it is healthy to talk and think about it, do not keep it inside.
In time you will learn to live with the the loss and will become a wiser human.

Grieving is normal and some do it better than others.
My Father died in my arms I saw his last breath of air and stayed in the room while the whole process of Doctors and everything took effect. I saw when they placed in the bag. He died two weeks after his father (my grandpa) died as well.
The hardest thing I've ever have to go through. I honestly, at that point, could not comprehend how I would make it through. I thought that was the end for everyone. I could not see the trees through the forest. I lost the two most important men in my life in a span of two weeks.
At the end, I remember can't and will not forget but I made it.

Time heals all wounds my friend. Give it time.

[TommyD]

Loosing someone..

> I've been superhumanly fortunate and only lost a few friends along the way,and even fewer relatives,just a baby cousin and my dad's parents. The ones that I really dread are my mom's side of the family. That set of grandparents have treated me unspeakably well all my life,as I am the grandson they never had. My grandmother had a heart attack recently,but is doing better,but that still doesn't keep me from dreading what I've been preparing for since high school,when my grandfather had a stroke and my grandmother had a radical mastectomy in the same month. What I dread most is the phone call,telling me or whoever answers that one of them is gone. My only hope is that I can graduate machine shop school before that happens,just so I can send them a copy of my Machinist I certificate. Another thing I dread is the possibility,from what I've been told by them and my mom,is that my aunt,mom's little sister and under state law because my mom lives in Tennessee,executor of the will,is going to do whatever she can to GLOM all the money,which to my understanding,is quite substantial. I really don't want to have hard feelings or a battle with this woman,as she was the one to teach me to read among other things,and don't want to cause drama in the house they raised me and my sisters to be better people than that. But I'll do it if need be. I suppose I'll undertand how you feel before long,but keep ya head up,and try to remember the ones you've lost by surrounding yourself with memories of them in better times and places. Tommy D.