Ever feel like

[jacksoncsplayer]

Dude, it will all work out. Losing people you love is never easy wether by death or a broken relationship, and for most of us it's perfectly normal to go through a mourning process. The upside is we are given memories which is our mental photo album. Everyone who comes into our lives is a gift of some sort, Rest your self and pick up the peices as you can, But NEVER give up and NEVER think you are less than.

[RacerX]

I'm very close to just saying fuck it all. I enjoy nothing anymore so what's point anyways.

I just noticed this line. WARD, suicide is not the answer. Don't do it, man.

A lot of times, just doing what you did (venting) is helpful.

Now, I was being tongue in cheek about the jail thing, but if you ascribe to the whole "life gives you lemons, make lemonade" thing, doing a little time just may help you with some of the things you are dealing with currently. I don't know how similar it'd be in Belgium to ie the USA, but I see a couple advantageous things:

You'll be fed semi well
Your sleep patterns should improve (after you get through the booking process anyway)
You might get into the exercising/weight-lifting thing
You may feel the relief that whatever the arrestable offense will be out of the way

Hope this helps
R

[Joe_Steeler]

Hey man, I've been there myself MANY MANY times.....

Easy to say from where I am standing, but relax. Just relax and let things come to you. Clear your mind and find an objective, as insignificant as it may be just find something to concentrate and build upon.

The sun will still come out tomorrow and the earth will keep spinning. It just does. Life is like a big rollercoaster, sometimes you are right and going 150 Km/hr having fun and sometimes you are upside down blowing chunks and feeling like shit.

I am not telling you what to do, because I am not in your skin. But from someone that has been to the edge looking at the devil square in face... there is light at the end of the tunnel. I promise.

[charveljunkie]

When shit in your life piles up, your love life goes away and it seems like everyone around you is dying including yourself well hell why not give up? Been there and done that many times in my life. But I promise you one thing!! Suicide is not the answer. Hmmm.... I had everything going hit bad times in L.A. and ended up in my car and going to gas stations to take a bath-enjoying my birthday in the back seat of my car in L.A. with enough $$$ for romian noodles and a beer-(oh-yeah no water) Ready to give it up and woke up and decided not to quit and started living. Came home to Georgia got everything going my way, met a killer blond got married, had a very popular band-Life was great for 4 years-Got walking phenmonia almost died, and then I get a call from my wife...-Tony I'm soooo sorry when you where being taken to the hospital your drummer came over we got drunk and I fukked him. I LOVE YOU and that will never happen again. Hmm... Got Divorce-yeah I have been f'n over several times. 3 divorces, 2 houses, my best friend and I went into business together he stoled $$$ from the company and cleaned me out for 25K...Went to work for a friend he was taking taxes out, social security etc.. on my check stubs after 3 years I get a fukking bill from the IRS saying I owed them 50K?? Well Thank God I did save reciepts and got it down to 12k...Blah, Blah, Blah... Shit I could keep going but trust me man I have thought of the other for a second or 2-once or twice but that was it. I doing alot better now-except for my lazy ass girlfriend but thats another issue Trust me I love waking up every morning seeing the sunrise and breathing air!! Its the only way to live!! I just look at it as being dead sucks and doesn't do anybody no good-But living is the biggest challage in the world-(And the hardest)-So pull your shoe's on and post in a couple of months how you met this great girl, school is great and she loves to hear you play guitar!!!! They are out there-Now start living Brother!!!!!!

[delt]

I've been told by a close friend to go see a psychiatrist, but I'd rather die than set foot in one of their offices.

why? If you have a mental "fracture" it doesn't mean you're a nutcase, in the same way if you break your arm or leg, it doesn't mean your physical health is going down the drain. Either way, you need to have the problem treated.

And damn do i know about the motivation thing. I suffer from chronic fatigue syndrome (so yeah, im a nutcase, bite me ) and it's a degenerative condition that has just been getting worse especially over the past year or 2. I'm losing ability to concentrate by the day, and i guess it's just a matter of (relatively little) time before i'm unable to take care of myself, prepare food, keep track of time, etcetc......

A couple of years ago i could pick up a guitar at 9 or 10 PM and practice all night until the morning. Today after an hour or 2 i really feel like i'm pushing it and need a break.


Oh... and you'll see your lost loved ones again, but it's not the time just yet

[GodOfRhythm]

Thanks guys, really appreciate the support and also to see that some of you have had it faaaar worse than me. I had a good chat with a close friend tonight, that cleared some stuff up. Sometimes this shit just get's too much, you know?

[charveljunkie]

Thanks guys, really appreciate the support and also to see that some of you have had it faaaar worse than me. I had a good chat with a close friend tonight, that cleared some stuff up. Sometimes this shit just get's too much, you know?

Hey Man-Just set back and enjoy the sunrise & sunsets-Being gone never works for anybody-Always a losing end. Hope everthing works out.

[atomic charvel guy]

my Mom gave me a shout yesterday, and she basically begged me to somehow find God and get him into my life, and I told her that you've never really been that far away, just geographically-lol
Hit me with a PM or an E-Bomb- [email protected]
Send your phone number, I'll cheer you the fukk up, and i'll also Fed ex. you my new 10 rule credo called "WATE" (Don't do it) Just sign the document and I'll make you not only a "high" priest, but i think i'll be forced to make you God-lol
WATE= Women are the Enemy-lol
Dude, I've lost 14,15 friends, one of my brothers, my dad, Uncles, Cousins, loss is something i deal with on an hourly basis, but you know what? I just don't give a fukk, I just make fun of everything and rag on whatever or whomever is in the way. Why not , it's a lot more fun, plus I also wail the piss out ofmyself too, I'm an easy target as you know-lol
Don't sweat the petty shit, just pet the sweaty shit. How old are you? I'm 626 years old and I still look fairly decent, so fear not, it's never too late too give in and slack like a dog in 160 degree weather. hope I hear from you dude, things suck, but they are just as great too. I've skirted around society's edges for centuries now, and this new club is gonna change shit , you'll see. WATE, Don't do it!!!!!!-lol

[horns666]

Dude, we will talk..

I don't have the time..got to get some sleep

Be good, take it easy man ..magic thrown your way!

Bill Z

[marcus]

I have been depressed for about the last year or so, due to the situation with my marriage. I am now beginning to see the other side. What really helped me is forcing myself to get up and do the things I needed to do: work, eat, be with my kids, etc. And I went to therapy. It was good just to have somebody to talk to. After a while of doing this stuff, I am starting to feel much better. There is a light at the end of the tunnel, don't forget that!

Oh, and Tommy, I am so in on the WATE thing. Send me the credo

[NextInLine]

Sometimes this shit just get's too much, you know?

Yeah that's when you need friends and places like JCF. Hope you'll get over it pretty soon bro, take care

[DrDoug]

I think most people run into periods of their lives where things just pile up on us, sometimes in the worst ways. It just seems that one thing after another happens, sometimes through no fault of your own, and it seems like it will never stop.

When things are going great, we lapse into a false sense that life will always be great, that nothing could go wrong. Then, in what feels like a flash, life is turned upside down.

I have had a couple of times in my life that I felt just worn out from never ending problems that seemed to pile up all at once. Usually it was because I was stupid and did something that I should not have, but not always. In the end, I buck up and then get my shit straight. But while I was riding it out, I can tell you that it was a pretty dark period in my life.

Do something. Anything that you feel is productive. Busy hands usually keeps the mind busy. Idling around only leads to dwelling on your problems, and not in a good way. Doing something that keeps your mind busy limits you to thinking about your problems in smaller, easier to digest chunks.

Good luck and I hope things get better soon for you.

[Special-K]

I know how you feel.. I`m going the same shit through...(almost)

[GodOfRhythm]

Thanks so much everybody for the encouraging words. You're all warm hearted people!

I'm feeling a little better now, I had a little Metallica marathon in bed with just headphones and my cd's, that always seems to pull me through a bit...Orion always hits home, just those haunting rhythm guitars, it's like they connect straight into my soul. I'm going to shave myself a goatee now I think, I want to start things a-fresh.

I've got another date in court to put the finishing touches on the entire heritage debacle that I've been trapped in for a couple of months now...That's the last place I want to be right now: Court...I feel like walking into the lion's den, it's another town though, I don't think they're out looking for me there.

[guitarsjb]

Glad to hear you're feeling somewhat better bro! Just keep on keepin' on. It's really all we can do. Hoping the best for you always.