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So I haven't been around much lately. Finally had a bit of time tonight, so I figured I'd spill it.
I probably won't be around much for the next couple of months, either. My wife and I are separating. Selling the house, divvying up the stuff, etc. It's been amicable, but it's really shitty. I don't want any of this to go down, but she wants out. We've done marriage counselling, tried working it out, but it ain't happening. I worked my ass off to make things work, but it appears it's all in vain. It's making me mental, coz we're still living in the house and sleeping in the same bed! I love her like crazy, but it seems she lost those feeling for me over the last few months. No, there's no cheating going on. To put it bluntly, I am living in constant heartbreak at the moment, and am always around her. Check the lyrics for Love Will Keep Us Alive on the new Scorpions album. That's how it feels. Cheesy as all that sounds.
My kids are gonna be really upset. We haven't told them yet. Once the house is up for sale next week and the sign is on the front lawn, it's time to tell them. This will be the hardest thing I will have ever had to do, and I don't want to do this to them. The kids will live with her, as I work retarded shift work, and they will come to my house on my days off, or whenever I feel like taking them out. Once I'm off shiftwork (in the next 2 years hopefully), then it will be 1 week at my house, 1 weeks at hers, etc.
So we are drafting up our separation agreement this week, and we're keeping it civil. Nobody's trying to take the others money or stuff, or keep the kids from each other. There's no hostility. Plus I'm being realy careful to cover my ass on all fronts. We've agreed that what's mine is mine, and what's hers is hers. We should make some good coin off this house too. I'm gonna buy a little house with 3 bedrooms and try and stay in the same area. It's nice and Leah's school is great. Don't want to pull her out of school, if we can help it. That would just make things worse.
Sorry, for getting all emo on you and shit, but I felt like I had to say it. I'm going to look at a place tomorrow and if it's good, I will put in an offer. Wish me luck.
-Glen
I probably won't be around much for the next couple of months, either. My wife and I are separating. Selling the house, divvying up the stuff, etc. It's been amicable, but it's really shitty. I don't want any of this to go down, but she wants out. We've done marriage counselling, tried working it out, but it ain't happening. I worked my ass off to make things work, but it appears it's all in vain. It's making me mental, coz we're still living in the house and sleeping in the same bed! I love her like crazy, but it seems she lost those feeling for me over the last few months. No, there's no cheating going on. To put it bluntly, I am living in constant heartbreak at the moment, and am always around her. Check the lyrics for Love Will Keep Us Alive on the new Scorpions album. That's how it feels. Cheesy as all that sounds.
My kids are gonna be really upset. We haven't told them yet. Once the house is up for sale next week and the sign is on the front lawn, it's time to tell them. This will be the hardest thing I will have ever had to do, and I don't want to do this to them. The kids will live with her, as I work retarded shift work, and they will come to my house on my days off, or whenever I feel like taking them out. Once I'm off shiftwork (in the next 2 years hopefully), then it will be 1 week at my house, 1 weeks at hers, etc.
So we are drafting up our separation agreement this week, and we're keeping it civil. Nobody's trying to take the others money or stuff, or keep the kids from each other. There's no hostility. Plus I'm being realy careful to cover my ass on all fronts. We've agreed that what's mine is mine, and what's hers is hers. We should make some good coin off this house too. I'm gonna buy a little house with 3 bedrooms and try and stay in the same area. It's nice and Leah's school is great. Don't want to pull her out of school, if we can help it. That would just make things worse.
Sorry, for getting all emo on you and shit, but I felt like I had to say it. I'm going to look at a place tomorrow and if it's good, I will put in an offer. Wish me luck.
-Glen
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